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 Post subject: Sex skills
PostPosted: Wed Jan 13, 2021 5:31 pm 
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How would I be good at something that I’m not supposed to care about or try to get daily practice, I can only have it when it comes or I would I end up begging for it and bowing down to it? I don’t want to submit to it or beg. I’ve seen the other posts about it being all mental then physical but how are you supposed to be any good?


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 Post subject: Re: Sex skills
PostPosted: Wed Jan 13, 2021 6:49 pm 
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Because the thing that turns you on is the thing that turns you on.

When you take your attention and focus your attention on the thing that turns you on, your actions (whatever they are) become automatic. Most importantly, you get pleasure from it.

That's how you know you are good, because you get pleasure from it. It's impossible to be wrong.


I think way too many men think that the physical act of sex is the actual turn on and are generally too focused on the physical. They don't put thought into what really turns them on and then put emphasis on it.

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 Post subject: Re: Sex skills
PostPosted: Wed Jan 13, 2021 11:42 pm 
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It's because you are projecting your center of balance outward instead of being centered in yourself.

Everything from the social matrix to law and money is about castrating the male directive principal.

You can even see this in the myth of Cronus who castrated Uranus.

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 Post subject: Re: Sex skills
PostPosted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 7:03 am 
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So pretty much I gotta be logical and not in my emotions?
Or just be into myself more than her?
Just focus on what is turning me on in that moment and be connected with it?


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 Post subject: Re: Sex skills
PostPosted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 8:58 am 
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It's really not that deep. What do you like in sex? Do that. As long as you listen and communicate with your partner and do some foreplay, you should be good. The more the woman is into you, the better your 'sex skills' will be, even if you're a virgin if she's more emotional then you you'll last pretty long.

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 Post subject: Re: Sex skills
PostPosted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 8:02 pm 
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So pretty much I gotta be logical and not in my emotions?
Or just be into myself more than her?
Just focus on what is turning me on in that moment and be connected with it?
No, I have emotions I just let float by like something carried down the stream.

It is that deep, if you want to have grounding and understand your place in life.

If you are just trying to have sex then no it's not that deep.

Look around. How many men do you actually see? The majority are metaphorically castrated and disempowered.

The masculine principal is to will, without will there is no being. They surrender their will to outside forces. A priest, a judge, a lawyer, a mayor, a woman. It is all the same.

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 Post subject: Re: Sex skills
PostPosted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 11:39 pm 
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 Post subject: Re: Sex skills
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So it’s not necessarily about not having emotions or repressing them but just to let everything flow and to remain detached from them, In conjunction with staying in a dominant position and stimulating the mind.


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peregrinus wrote: *
Thank you my friend :)

I've never stopped finding weight to add to my pushups.

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 Post subject: Re: Sex skills
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Newguy69 wrote: *
So it’s not necessarily about not having emotions or repressing them but just to let everything flow and to remain detached from them, In conjunction with staying in a dominant position and stimulating the mind.

We are polarized between the two pillars of [Solomon's] temple. One pillar is the line of the king who controls the land and the other is the priest who controls the law. This pattern is replicated throughout everything. Right vs left, democrat vs republican, love vs hate. The goal is always to polarize and conquer.

This is an outward manifestation of our inner landscape.

The stories we call myths are actually encodings of how the world works and what has been done to us.

Osiris is killed by his brother Set "dismembered" and scattered along the Nile (the spine). Isis puts him back together minus the phallus which she can not find. So she makes an artificial one. Do you see the principal of energetically castrating the male directive principal?

To be "remembered" is to re member all of the pieces of yourself that have been fractured by the "matrix". You have to integrate all the pieces internally so you can rise above the system of polarization.

This is what Jesus is doing when he walks upon the water. The other disciples waking Him up is symbolic of the master within them sleeping.

I "remember" who I am.

So yes, this is almost entirely an inward process. Holding your position requires almost no words, you can be silent and let them project what they want onto you.

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 Post subject: Re: Sex skills
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So how I get myself centered in my masculine center? Inner work? You bringing it deeper than I would think about. It’s enlightening and puzzling at the same time all this metaphysical stuff. Now you making me think of analytical psychology with the anima and animus? Or the kybalion.


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 Post subject: Re: Sex skills
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Newguy69 wrote: *
So how I get myself centered in my masculine center? Inner work? You bringing it deeper than I would think about. It’s enlightening and puzzling at the same time all this metaphysical stuff. Now you making me think of analytical psychology with the anima and animus? Or the kybalion.
By not watching porn first and foremost. There is a reason it's free.

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 Post subject: Re: Sex skills
PostPosted: Thu Jan 21, 2021 5:09 pm 
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Newguy69 wrote: *
So how I get myself centered in my masculine center? Inner work? You bringing it deeper than I would think about. It’s enlightening and puzzling at the same time all this metaphysical stuff. Now you making me think of analytical psychology with the anima and animus? Or the kybalion.
My response would be different.

The masculine centre, as you refer to it, already exists (that's the automatic I was talking about). I'd say it's up to you to find what your turn ons are and put emphasis on it. Yes, there are deeper ends of that, but there are shallower ends of it as well - equally as compelling and not any less valid. It doesn't all have to be this complex metaphysical stuff. The other person can have the same turn ons too.

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