Ok, first the universe is in you. It's your inner world.
Second, while it's true you're only as good as your competition is bad, you always beat your competition when you don't compete.
Third, every guy that hugs women is a symp that I've seen. Women ASK me to hug them and moan like they've just been penetrated because I don't go out of my way to give them physical contact. I keep things pretty sterile until they show me they want to be touched.
Fourth, ask yourself this: how many of those women actually talk to him? Every guy I did my research on who was like that...Their Facebooks are ghost towns and they're actively posting. Don't admire someone who chases women, opens his pockets like an ATM, and is a borderline molester. Women let you know when they want to be touched.
Really was trying not to be like that old Slim.
Focus on yourself man. Everything else will fall into place.
You want to know a secret? We get those women before those guys. I had the chance to have sex with multiple women my friend had sex with before he was with them. I acted on some instances and turned down others. These women take me places. He has a hard time getting those women to even show up when they're in the same building because he's an after thought. He has to get them drunk. I get them in one night while we're both sober and probably haven't talked in MONTHS.
Guess what? He has a higher "SMV" than me, whatever that means. His Facebook is flooded with phony affectionate pictures etc.
Dear Slim, thank you for the answers. Right now I am throught a storm shit of problems that I had to kick to the curb women and focus on these.
Thats why it took me few days to answer you.
You know the funny thing though? I walk with expression like Mark Whalberg in the Max Payne movie, look at the people in the eyes and some chicks give me signs of interest, adjusting hairs...
You brought up some valid points that I can only agree with, when a woman likes you she pleases you with food, she compliments you, she asks you questions, she even, happened to me before this chick of the topic, ask you if you find more attractive her friend instead of her.
Instead if she has low interest, she would come late to the date, ask you few questions about you, smile talking about other guys she is meeting and do/said this or that for her, if you take her hand and walking hand by hand she is like a boiled fish aka dont reciprocate. Things that the girl in this topic did but I didnt payed attention because of thirstyness/fear/thinking she is better than me...but it doesnt matter right now cause I feel sorry and guilt of putting me in this type of situation.
Anyway even if happened what happened ( and I got pressures of stopping doing it), I will still learn the german language and go on my goals (if somebody has suggestions p.m. me or just answer).
I saw that this topic has a lot of viewers, so if you dont mind I would expand some points you bring up.
Because it seems that there are two sides of the same coin.
You know, like Patrice Oneal said quoting the war games movie "strange game professor...the only winning move is not to play, now if a bitch dont play your game, you dont play".
Fine, so what are the signs of her not playing your game? Tests? What kind of tests? Testing you is a sign of weak game/weak approach?
But the other side of the coin Patrice said one time something like this "when the year the pussy became important". How the pussy became so important?
I dont get it. I listened to few so called "gurus", if we have all the tools to be a man, getting laid is our birthright, you have to be a Man, strong...but here comes the "correct" attitude, the technique.
You have the one to take the dating like a chess game.
You have the one who focused on being bold, explicit, unapologetic, ect..
You have the one who focused on being "alpha", act like James Bond, body language, dress well.
You have the one who basically focused about conversations so the woman is impressed by you.
You have the one who said cultivate your life with interesting things to do, learn new language, go to the gym, do some sports, travel because girls like guys who have interesting lives...but the guy who has nothing of that still fuck your girl (the example of that guy chasing the women for months but you fucked them in couple of days that you wrote is perfect).
You have to wait X days because if not you are needy, fake it until you make it, be cool, disinterested if she piss you off (but if instead was a guy, you would have zero problems to call him names, ect..)..
Why the techniques if being a man is enought? Is not another way of pleasing the women, walking on eggs shells? Or it is more tools, corrections about social engineering/betasation of males of this era?
Thank you and bye for now