Man I just read some of your posts and what you write about is like a huge big slap in the face. For all my life I've lived in ignorance about women, I thought they were innocent but what you have showed me is making me really want to change my approach to how I deal with them. Kidd, are women REALLY not that faithful? The fact that I'm asking that question just proves how much I've been conditioned by society to believe that girls are nice and most guys are the dishonest ones. I'll admit I haven't had much success with women, still a virgin, partially cuz of anxiety, and the fact that I'm still trying to figure out what the hell I'm going to do with my life, but I've been taking steps to get over that fear. I mean your stories about married women getting it on with you, it really breaks my heart that some women would do this to their husband. On one hand I'm glad that someone has given me warnings about this, and on the other I'm just devastated that my perfect reality is shattered to pieces. Have you met any honest, faithful, good-hearted women? Or do you always have to keep an eye on them, constantly watching for bullshit they may throw your way? I always try to see the good in humanity, but lately its gotten harder and harder, and I feel all that energy would be better directed into bettering myself than trying to change my perception.
Sorry I'm late to my own party...busy studying for my RN boards.
Anyhoo, pleasure to make your acquaintance. I recommend watching a foreign film (Brazilian, I think?) called Unfaithful Women. I think it will give you some perspective...it's on Netflix for sure.
What you need to take away from what I'm about to say is this: Women will cheat if they are not getting what they NEED at home. Notice I didn't say WANT...I said NEED. Men of today don't know how to tell what a woman NEEDS, and overcompensate by trying to give her everything they WANT...which leaves them ultimately spoiled and bored. These married women were unfaithful because they were missing something at home...and the crux of the problem is that women of today seek out men that SOCIETY says they should have....instead of going with their gut and picking the man they actually TRULY desire...all because the guy they really want isn't awesomely handsome, well off, etc. It's a sad state of affairs.
So, over the course of my life since my awakening, I have gone from a staunch "Truss no Bitch" mantra to, with the ability to observe, analyze, apply, and adapt, I'm convinced that if you take the time to marry the RIGHT woman, who TRULY wants you for YOU and has your best interests at heart, you will be fine. It has to be for ALL THE RIGHT REASONS...for BOTH parties involved.
So, let me put this ounce of hope back into the reality my Pandora's Box has painted for you. Heed my writings and use the knowledge well...if you use them for good, you will have a very fulfilling and successful marriage one day.
And, once again, welcome to the forum.
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