This example is defenately a display of a guy, of having indifference towards the outcome of sex happening. I guess a person/guy can only pull it off when he's: content/happy already, he doesn't overvalue what the outcome brings him, he has (just as) enjoybale things to do as a substitute for sex with her?
It's not about 'pulling it off'.....in this mindset other things in life are enjoyable on their own, sex is lower on the priority list so there's no need to perceive hobbies etc. as a substitution for sex,
but actually viewing sex as just another one of those enjoyable things, I dunno if this makes much sense to you now but this is a valuable lesson I learned from Kidd.
Indifference is not something one does to acquire a result [from someone else] it's something you acquire after much inner work.
THIS (in bold, but all of it is valuable).
I've recently been observing how MUCH hidden value I've tied to sex. Rather than see it as an enjoyable act, I tied a 100lb weight to it, believing girls where the answer.
It was nice seeing it brought up in your post again.