Hi guys,
things are going great with my girl. I would like to point something out, something that I have learned mainly from David X and The Kidd.
In the past I did a huge mistake with women and it was:
I was always thinking of making them happy.
Now I still want to make them happy
But this time the focus is on me, which means:
I don't try to make her happy if I'm not happy.
It is a social program to think we should make them happy even if we are not happy (not getting what we want..). Wrong, Wrong, Wrong!!!!!
You are the most importent thing in the relationship and if you are not happy don't try to make her happy.
The thing that I'm doing is this: when I'm not happy (when I give and she does not give back)
I don't try to make her happy. when she sees that she is going out of her way to try and make me happy.
Women love a chalange and a man who knows what he wants and not afraid to show it.
Sometimes they test you to see if you are a strong man: a man that does not 'submit' to her
by giving up your desires and needs just to make her feel good.
Don't ever forget that guys....