Natural Freedom

Caliboy, if someone called me for a job interview, where the conditions were:

1) I had to work 12 hours a day, 7 days a week
2) Not only did I not get paid, but I had to pay THEM

If I first of all, accept that interview because "someone approached ME for a job," then I didn't get that job, and I came to you asking for advice about "what did I do wrong" -- "how can I improve myself"

What would you say?

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTXz8xMaJi4

I would say that you should be glad that you didn't get the job,why would you want a job that requires you to work 12 hours a day 7 days a week and not get paid?

You're trying to use indifference as a technique to get an outcome you want. You're still attached to the outcome.

Indifference is not a technique. You can't become indifferent in order to get women - that inherently means you're not indifferent.

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"The society gives you a map; I give you only freedom. The society gives you character, I give you only consciousness. The society teaches you to live a conformist life ... I give you an invitation to go on an adventure." - Osho

And they will smell it from a mile away, it cannot be faked, not even by the greatest actors.

It must be real.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

True but you can control your level of neediness when you are in a woman's presence.In the back of my mind i am thinking "damn it would be nice to take this woman home" but the difference is i am not so needy that if i don't get the desired outcome i beat myself up.I still continue on with my life.That's where the difference lies.

Does not compute. You still need them.

No you, don't because you made a post about it. And thus affirming in your mind to seek a way to hook up with this girl or to read something or some clever that would teach you something in order to catch this woman. The emphasis is not on you yet because you don't allow it.

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GMST

I'll just leave this here...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kz40vwcTGFo

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

Gonna beat off to this some time in the near future. I think it will help speed up my maintenance.

Caliboy you should do it too.

Altair with the slam dunk.

Caliboy, read my signature 50 times.

Just letting you know, Dali - that image is now my desktop backround........

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"I will not grow in the light, until I pass through the darkest caverns of my heart..."

"Temet Nosce"

Isn't it cute?

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GMST

Neo grounding?

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"I will not grow in the light, until I pass through the darkest caverns of my heart..."

"Temet Nosce"

No....Trinity practice

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"I will not grow in the light, until I pass through the darkest caverns of my heart..."

"Temet Nosce"

"Both push ups (real inner work) and eating junk food ("inner work" with an external goal in mind, i.e. women) will make your chest bigger. Only one is a solid foundation though, and only one makes you stronger in the end." - Moose

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"The society gives you a map; I give you only freedom. The society gives you character, I give you only consciousness. The society teaches you to live a conformist life ... I give you an invitation to go on an adventure." - Osho