Funny thing is that one sunday i didnt show up to her place and she went cold ignoring my phone calls.And i was acting like a symp sending her texts apologizing for things i didn't do.
1)I went to her house on two different occasions.I rang the door she didn't answer
2)Continued trying to get a hold of her
3)3 weeks after she ignored me i couldn't take it anymore and sent her a text saying "Are we still together?..I understand if you don't want to be together but please don't leave me hanging).She replies the following day telling me to meet her at her place
4)She breaks up with me we should be friends and she will call me when she needs my help.I actually started getting teary eyed.At the end she says do you hope i find a Boyfriend?I said you had one.
5)3 weeks later i take her out for dinner(Now that i think of this sympish behavior..im glad she dumped me)She tells me that there is something she wanted to tell me after the breakup.She says that "Women are like a fruit with different flavors and should be eating i want you to date other woman ".I felt like someone was fucking with my brain.This is typically advice that a man gives to another man aka david x but it was coming from her.Kidd was right when he says that women are the biggest pimps.
Everytime i play this movie in my head i wonder why i was such a fucking symp. If only i had discovered this forum earlier i could have realized that space and doing nothing would have solved everything.
You know, the part where you asked her "are we still together" reminds me of something. A girl I used to date was extremely insecure, every time we would have a fight she would ask "are you breaking up with me because of something stupid?" She would ask this because I'd ignore her and naturally that made her more anxious and nervous, I can only assume that's how you felt. At any rate, I knew the power that I had over her and lost respect for her because she always asked me the same thing over and over. I knew that I had the most power in the relationship and eventually I thought in my head.. "You know what, she keeps thinking I'm going to break up with her, that's a good idea! I'm going to break up with her!" Anyways my point is that if you ask women questions like that it'll give them an idea, it sort of sounds like begging.
Also, the part where she said she was cooking for a co-worker is highly disrespectful for you. I would have called her out on that bullshit and fired her right there. Try saying this out loud and think of how this sounds "My girlfriend is cooking food for a male co-worker of hers." I know she's your ex, but I'm just saying that it's not a good look. It shows a clear sign of disrespect when someone isn't willing to do something that they do for someone else.