to make small update.
Called her, and we met up yesterday for some sightseeing activities during the daytime. Nothing much sexual was going on there and physical contact seemed a bit off (especially the goodbye kissing, not mutual/synchrone enough), maybe I'll invite her to meet up again. Since I have the 3 strikes rule that would be the last time (for romantic purpose) then, so I will probably construct this last meetup entirely towards romantic encounter (read, inviting her to come to my place, or meet up at late evening).
If a future meeting happens, I'll give update for the noisy people.
I think your too invested in the outcome, and your are chasing her not giving her the space necessary for her to fill it
 
This. Give Zero Fucks about the outcome.