I was reading this,
In the name of science!, and it coincided with what happened a few night ago with the girl in this thread. Keep reading to see where.
Bringing the thread up to speed...
We saw each other a few nights ago (the girl in this thread). She met up with me and my friends. I remember when I told her where we where she was there within minutes.
After the bar we all ended at my friends place for bit. The group there consisted of 5 guys and her. The beast began to creep out I guess. She began gauging my level of interest in her by flirting lightly with some of the guys in the room.
Silly girl I don't care. I knew this was what was going on when I saw her out of the corner of my eye glancing at me to see how I was reacting. It didn't matter to me.
When I was tired we made our exit. We ended at her place and in her bed. I laid out a more defined contract this time. It was something all the lines of: "I like hanging out with you, but if we want to continue hooking up we need to clarify a few things. One, I'm not in the mindset to have a gf or do I have time for one. Right now I enjoy my personal time and freedom too get too involved with someone. I'm seeing another person at the moment and may see other people in the future. Is this something your all ok with?"
(I don't like being so wordy with it all and want to incorporate more of letting my actions speak, but it's a good start)
She evaded the question with a, "I don't know why you have to get all serious, where only hooking up". I don't have enough experience to know for sure, but from reading here I'm saving myself a lot of headache by clarifying where this relationship stands. I also she was trying to FRONT LOAD (i think that is what it is called) on me. Making it seem like I was making a "BIG DEAL" out of something that wasn't that big. I dismissed her reply and let her know she needed to supply an appropriate answer. She agreed and verbally signed the contract. I then fucked her silly till till her pussy couldn't take it no more.
This is where the thread I referred to comes in.
I couldn't cum and she wasn't happy with that. I didn't have a limp dick or anything. I just couldn't cum that was all.
I'll refer to the thread now:
HAVING THE WRONG MINDSET AFFECTS YOUR SEXUAL PERFORMANCE. No, really!
See, when I let myself be all sappy, I came faster than minute rice (well, a little longer than that, but nowhere near normal). I enjoyed it ALOT! Yet, when I went back to logical 'ol me, I almost COULDN'T cum...same girl, same plumbing. It was a CHORE to cum. So check THIS out, right?...
It could then be postulated that...if you are climaxing too easily with a woman, YOU ARE IN THE WRONG MINDSTATE...and vice versa!
Therefore!...the stronger your position in the relationship, the harder it is for you to climax! This is potentially HUGE! This means that men don't need cockrings and the like to combat premature ejaculation...they just have to man up to make the woman desire them more than they desire the woman!
I felt the same way...it felt like a chore to cum. Eventually I came, but the takeaway after reading "In the name of science!" was a big CONfirmation for myself. Showing me my mindset was beginning to solidify. I remember thinking how the old me from a few years ago would have acted when he was fucking this pretty girl!
Ohh boy it would be soooo different.
I noticed that I'm also in the anger and apathy stage that we talk about here from the RED PILL. I just don't see any value in these girls right now. I just see it as nothing more than some ego gratification and some sexual release. I'm going to stick to what I'm doing and deal with the girls that choose me, until this phase runs its toll.