Bruce Lee also talked about this, but he mentioned natural instict (emotion and instincts) and control (logical thinking)
Here it is, natural instinct and here is control. You have to combine the two in harmony. If you have one to the extreme, you'd be very unscientific, if you have another to the extreme, you become all of a sudden a mechanical man, no longer a human being so it is a succesful combination of both. So it's not pure naturalnes or unnaturalnes, the idela is unnatural naturalnes or natural unnaturalnes.
I find it relevant
And I'm ENFJ and I like both, I can't comprehend the first version but can understand the second
Also StephenP I'm happy for you you could overcome your bad emotional behaviors with logic, but for person like me, NO FUCKIN WAY. And I tried it and exactly what Scarf said happened - My actions were still the same and emotions just camouflaged themselves into background. I personally thinks it's the xxFx type's thing - Gotta deal with emotions emotionally first and then logically work with them... Not the other way around for me.
Now, I'm using "hooey" EFT technques to confront my emotional responses - I don't get any pictures, memories or anything, but I do get those emotional whoosh states you guys talk about when talking about releasing and letting go.
I'm very convinced, that it is very much connected to neurological system - I had experience, when getting to the root of the emotional fear, when parts of my body were vibrating, it got tothe point when my left hand was vibrating like never in my life, with some meridian points pulsating like hell - You guys can shout hooey here and hooey there, but you can't take that experience from me, because it felt like something blocked and is releasing and going away slowly. And after I dealt with it, it slowly subdued, disappeared and lot of weight fell of my chest.
Now I'm very convinced that not only uncouscious remembers, but body itself remembers. And it tells us it's hurts if we let it. But yeah isn't unconscious really only bunch of neurons storing all the information ?
Also, in my opninion, emotions are driver, motivator... With only logic, I don't think any of us would do anything, if it weren't even for the little amount of some kinda emotion - But I have a question, do you think state of peace is emotion, or pure emptiness, or emotion out of emptiness or what ?
