Thanks for reply Flux,
Freedom, unrestricted self-sufficient as dominant traits for men i agree.
Why you think this applies for females too?
I was responding to what was attractive in men but those traits could be attractive in women as well. They may be packaged slightly different to appeal to men (More feminine and open) but the core would be the same. [Mirror]
Actually, I'd add acceptance to that list as well. Mix all that up and you basically get indifference.
Besides looking good most of the girls I'm attracted to tend to have some version of such traits. Either that or I've projected them onto them. I don't think I do that much anymore.
What do you understand under 'vibe'?
What's internal is projected outward, this decides what you may or may not do from deliberate actions to small subcommunications.