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Dali
PostPosted: Wed Aug 15, 2012 6:56 pm 
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peregrinus wrote:
Dali :D

I LOVE that reply, brought a smile to my face...
Thank you too. :)

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TheDude
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bliss wrote:

My initial thought was she's coming half way (proximity), now it's your turn engage and pull her in...BUT

I have a feeling from posts to come that this is incorrect.

My old habitual PUA mindset is telling me in a situation like that PULL/Engage/Be the man...any thoughts?
*bump.

Brought a smile to my face reading this again and seeing how far I've come since posting that back in 2011; BIG difference.
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Aragorn
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bliss wrote:
bliss wrote:

My initial thought was she's coming half way (proximity), now it's your turn engage and pull her in...BUT

I have a feeling from posts to come that this is incorrect.

My old habitual PUA mindset is telling me in a situation like that PULL/Engage/Be the man...any thoughts?
*bump.

Brought a smile to my face reading this again and seeing how far I've come since posting that back in 2011; BIG difference.
So what's different now?

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TheDude
PostPosted: Fri Feb 26, 2016 4:56 am 
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Many things.

Mindset shift, becoming aware of the matrix, learning to bend the rules, more comfortable in my skin, trusting my gut.

Faster at typing. ;)
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Aragorn
PostPosted: Fri Feb 26, 2016 11:16 am 
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When I posted here I would try to be 'cool' and sound 'wise' with my responses. :lol: "silly kid, tricks are for kids!"

I was scared to open up and reveal myself I guess.
I'm just saying... :lol: (your quote from the Starting Over thread)

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TheDude
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Thanks for the reminder. I was being a bit aloof.

Just looking back I could see and feel a difference from where I was when I typed that post from 2011 to where I am right now. I was much more 'plugged in' back then.
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TheDude
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Gashy wrote:
Her: See, you don't know anything about a woman, you've learned some gambits, memorized some fake stories and live within your squared world of yours. And when the times goes by and you run out of fuel, the chicks become bored of you trying hard to project other you and so they run!!!
This is something I experienced when I was heavy into pua stuff and it's a trap. Maybe I "get" the girl, but what have I really got? At some point the show will end and I'll run out of tricks and tactics. What's left then?

It's a shallow experience with no real growth. If you're reading this and going down that path - I would've loved to take a moment and ask myself what's at the end of that tunnel really?

After seeing past the girls and sex I would've seen what I later experienced.
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peregrinus
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TheDude wrote: *Fri Apr 09, 2021 5:20 pm
This is something I experienced when I was heavy into pua stuff and it's a trap. Maybe I "get" the girl, but what have I really got? At some point the show will end and I'll run out of tricks and tactics. What's left then
Did you get the girl or did the tricks?

If it was the tricks, when they stop so will her reason.
If the tricks got her, you never did.

There for the illusion you are projecting onto the world, which is different from the you yourself.
who can blame her for not being around when you start to turn into something else, your real self... it is not what she bought

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peregrinus wrote: *Fri Apr 09, 2021 10:30 pm
There for the illusion you are projecting onto the world, which is different from the you yourself.
who can blame her for not being around when you start to turn into something else, your real self... it is not what she bought

She's a bitch! ;)
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