So I haven't posted here in a long time, and I thought I should...
I've come a long way by reading through the stuff here on this forum and doing inner work. I must say, I'm much more content with who I am now, thanks to you guys. I couldn't have done it without you.
Anyway, I went from having no women interested in me to getting checked out by women on a daily basis, thanks to my improved mindset (I think my improved looks from working out, losing body fat, and other things play a big part, but that's not the point). It's pretty cool to have women eyeing me wherever I go, but the thing is, I don't get jocked or approached the way you guys do. I literally never get approached or jocked by women at all, meaning that they will never directly approach me or hover in my vicinity to get me to talk to them. They'll like what they see and just move on.
I see you guys talking about giving space to women to allow them to seduce you, but what if I don't have any space to give since they're not trying to seduce me? (Mind you, I don't chase.) Often times, it seems like you guys just happen to always be at the right place at the right time. You're just there, and a woman will show up and make an effort to get you to open her. Even at school, there will be women in my classes that will eye me throughout the whole quarter, but they'll just keep their distance without making a move. Then the quarter ends, and I never see them again.
I found this on reddit:
http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments ... o_you_get/. Guys there were talking about how often they get approached. Apparently, attractive men rarely, if ever, have women approaching them. My experience is similar to theirs. I do not know how you guys do it.
This is the sticking point I'm at. I'm aware that I'm attached to this outcome, so I'm trying to let go.
Any thoughts?