Well she doesn't always talk about how strong and independent she is...
She has just mentioned a couple times that she likes to be able to do things herself and she doesn't like to rely on others to get stuff done.
She knows what she wants. She doesn't text all the time like other girls, she just texts me when she wants to kick it.
I see what you guys are saying but I think she really means it when she claims she's independent.
She has mentioned to me how her parents had kids really young and how they didn't really know how to be parents; she doesn't seem to carry tons of baggage from this like one would expect. I feel like the independent thing stems from having to look out for herself from an early age. Furthermore, she's not a social leech. At parties, I can leave her alone and talk to other friends/girls and she won't smother me for attention or complain about me talking to other people...but she will find me at the end of the night
Anyway, I've never experienced a girl like this before so it is refreshing for me. I'm not saying she is an x-factor by any means, I'm just saying I enjoy girls like this and she has showed me something about myself. I very much appreciate the girls who do not hound me for attention or turn to me to fulfill all their needs. She gives me space and I give her space - it works.
She could stop hitting me up tomorrow and it wouldn't be no thang. At least I've learned about myself, allowed myself to share intimacy, and at the very least made a friend.
If my gut is right, then I'll be happy because of the above sentence
If you guys, Kidd, Altair, and Slim, are right, then my attraction for this girl will be gone anyways.
Plus, I've got other, more important things going on in my life. Letting go of a situation like this is not too difficult for me anymore