I hear this shit all the time, "I'm too nice, maybe I have to start treating women like shit to make them like me"....shit most of my friends have at some point said this to me untill I straightened them out.
I'll direct this more at newbies since it seems the longer term members have been de-pussified which I love, back to our team baby!
Forget the term Alpha and Beta and replace it with MAN and pussy. That's all it really is. Do you let women walk all over you? You're a pussy!
If a women tries to walk all over you do you tell her to pack her shit and get the fuck out while at the same time texting Sherri from down the block to come over and give your balls a rubdown? That's a man!
I'm gonna sort of freewrite rant for a bit so let me have my moment, I see a lot of guys in pain going through this shit and it bugs the hell out of me.
Another point: Here's 2 schools of thought, THE difference between a MAN (natural as some call it) and a pua...
Imagine this scenareo, you're on a 3rd date with a chick and she just won't sleep with you...she's being bitchy, testing you..
Man mindset: "My" rule is pussy on the 3rd date or it's over, I'm wasting my time, gtfo so I can give some other girl the night of her life. (It's the girls fault)
Pussy or pua mindset: This chick won't sleep with me, what's wrong with me, what can I say to her or game her into liking me. ( It's my fault)
See the difference? There is nothing wrong with you!!!! You are the fuck'n man, this bitch is just not worth your time, she's not worthy of you!
Now all of you have your own rules, I'm not saying that you have to fuck every girl the 3rd time you see her, just that you have to stick to your beliefs and not let them be bent by a girl, if she knows you believe in something and she is able to change that, she will sense it as weakness and lose respect for you....then be done with your ass shortly after.
Another thing I see is this whole treating girls badly bullshit. Listen, the only girls who like to be treated badly are low-self esteem psychotic bitches that you are better off without, trust me!
Then you have people who say that pulling a girls hair while slapping her ass and calling here your dirty little slut for the night while your fucking her is somehow mean...bullshit! Girls like a dominant guy, that's not being mean, that's giving her what she wants! Now different girls have different levels of intensity they prefer in the bedroom, but they all love to feel sexy and free.
I can't count the number of times a girl has jokingly called me an asshole and then proceeded to insert dick to mouth. Being mean to a girl is hitting her, stealing from her, verbally abusing her, making her feel bad....but talking dirty, fucking her realy good, playfully teasing her, not being a needy bitch calling her all the time, etc can be seen by pussies as treating her badly, but bioligically they need that, it's what they want and crave.
By the way, I fucking hate the term "Nice guy", becasue the nice guy people describe isn't really nice, he's jelous, devious, selfish, has a hidden agenda, all that shit. It's fine to be nice, but again, my defeninition of nice is fucking them like they've dreamed of being fucked, everything I said they needed above.
Another thing, not every girl is worthy of you. Fuck, I just came back from the store and behind the counter was this really cute redhead working. I go up to pay for my shit and tried to make small talk (She was wearing her halloween costume) and she was a fuck'n bitch. Now in my mind and in any real man's mind the thought process is "This bitch ain't worthy, fuck off". But a pussy or a pua would have thought "This girl doesn't like me, what's wrong with me, what can I do or how can I change myself to get her to like me, maybe tell this story, do this magic trick?". Like who gives a fuck about her approvel, really!
Imagine a really hot big titted blonde standing at a bar, like a 10 on any guys scale. Then this guy comes up beside her to order a drink and she says "hey how's your night (Nothing wring with making small talk, you're not giving away your power) and the guy says "Pfff, fuck off, I prefer brunettes with small tits, leave me alone". I gaurantee that 10 would be like "hahaha, ok loser, you're an idiot, fuck off". Not "What's wrong with me, how can I change myself, blah blah". Have the same thought process as that 10. Get it?
If you want to work on yourself (Body, career, etc..) That's fine, great, fantastic! But do it for YOU...not for some chick! If not, if you love your life now and a girl won't accept it, it's easy...."hit the road bitch, I'm the fuck'n man and this is how I live". Easy as that.
Anyway, just some random shit and I'm tired after writing that much...lol Night fellas, stay hard!
_________________ The honey doesn't chase the bee.
A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."
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