The thought of TheKidd!!! teaching this stuff to women in workshops
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There would be mass walkouts, booing, hissing. Probably things thrown at him. It would taken an extraordinarily open female mind just to sit through it.
Zan can workshop to Women because he says what they want to hear, which is idealism at best and not intune with the reality of the situation.
Maybe Zan himself knows about being powerful, pimp tight and etc...
but he doesn't teach it
Perhaps. Hard to gauge without knowing the man personally. Having seen one of his workshops online, he is pure technique. Even watching him in a recorded interview before he went on stage I can see there's nothing nothing particularly natural about him. He may rattle something off about evolution and being a man, which sounds nice, but otherwise what I saw was a very superficial, pseudo-spiritual man. He's very imbalanced toward light nature in regards to women. He showed the audience what he does in clubs and bars, and it was bordering on harrassment. Space filling taken to quite an extreme, but with a phony confidence. I can imagine him doing well with the middle age housewife crowd.
A guy that loves women and is not ashamed of it is powerful. Every straight guy loves women but most of them are pussies about it. Their scared and they seek approval. When you come from a place of power, like you love women, you want to fuck women and you are confident about it is powerful.
It's like having a big dick or something. You know you have what women want. You embrace your sexual energy and your attraction to them. It's an alpha male thing. Like the guy from the book 50 shades of gray. He's open about his sexuality and he communicates it with power and confidence. He takes control. That is what women are extremely attracted to. They cannot resist it.
Guys want sex, it's obvious. But a guy that knows what he wants and communicates it in a powerful way is what the difference is. I understand what zan is saying. It's a energy thing. It's actually something that is very important.
But Matt, how can someone 'love' women? I like certain foods, but I don't LOVE food. You see? I treat my food accordingly
LOVING women is not really coming from a place of power, treating them accordingly is. For me the distinction is important.
The guy from 50 shades is also a bad example. He's a sado-masochist who displays traits of obsession, he buys her tons of shit to keep her interested and pursues her like a hound chasing a fox. I'd implore you to never use this guy in anything other than derogatory terms. He's a symp. Just a rich one with a big D and a prediliction for shoving metal objects up asses.