Well, I agree only partially. I wanted to get better with women and knew that if I keep failing that must mean I don't have all the answers.
I started to learn from different teachers - I dropped what I didn't relate to and kept what I thought was right.
I must admit I really beleived in the whole natural grounding thing and yet:
it never brought me the results I was hoping for. So I moved on learned from other people, and then really started to see great results.
So no need to chase anything but if you don't learn and improve how can you get what you want?
You just need to find people who already did it\ go it, learn from them and then take what you think is good for you and leave the rest.
That's why I follow teachers but never make anyone into a 'Guru'. Learning from people who are better than me at something or that know stuff I don't know is great as long as I'm always my own Guru