Goddamn it, Meraki! The rant was awesome and I agree 100%. A wise man told me: "never have sex without a condom with a woman you are not willing or see yourself having a baby with". And I kind of live by this rule. Plus I am extra careful at what women say that could raise a red flag.
Just last sunday, it was me and 2 buddies in a car, and we were talking shit, goofin', laughing and shit and talking about chicks. Now, they don't know much about human behavior, human nature, basically they are not like the guys on this forum, ok ? And a friend of mine, wants to sleep with this girl, went out with her a few times, and he said that she said that "she likes it without a condom".. and he was all like "YEEEEEEEEIII". But in my mind, that was like a red flag, if she openly said she likes it like that. I mean it's cool and all, but there is too much to risk, in general, but from his POV, also. He got laid off from his job, and he already has a girlfriend but works in another country. AND, CAN U REALLY FLAT OUT TRUST A WOMAN NOWADAYS ?? Just on the single premise that she is pretty and u want to get inside her cooch ? She may be good intentioned, but fuck, the risk is too high. And in case of any of u guys are wondering if I did say this to him !? No, b/c it seems I speak another language, every time I talk about the man-woman dynamic - that they don't understand. I'm not even trying anymore, it's a waste of time. Guys in the matrix, if u will, don't understand it, and it gets from one year through the other, and it never sticks. And this guy in particular has the "I think I know it all" syndrome, and we all know how dangerous that can be. ( I used to have it )
And I'm not from the U.S. either.
@Last paragraph.
Neither do I.
I think you missed this post:
viewtopic.php?f=2&t=3789
In that video, pay attention to what he says, despite the overall belligerent attitude. Take that from that guy that's still 'ITM' but has started to see clearly.