Last night I had my first Kidd like experience and in regards to "fruits of my labor" and long-term patience.
A female in a program I was apart of at school took a liking to me a while back. The signs where quiet obvious once I knew what to look for. However, the program we where apart of had a zero-policy tolerance for cohorts engaging in intimate relationships while on term. For me that was easy, I valued the program more than her. I also noted that this day may come, but was surprised by how much patience, being awesome, and giving her space would turn her into a wild frenzy once alone.
To paint the picture of this female, she is a tall attractive female with some piercing eyes. I've witnessed her melt guys in front of me by her presence and confidence. She's hard working (20 units a semester) and on top of her shit. It's also a plus she lacks very little in the looks department.
I went over to her place last night. We laid back enjoyed each others company for a bit. Got close physically, but nothing overtly sexual. Fast forward and we are in her room watching 500 Days of Summer. I was picking the movie apart mentally and having a blast at it! Very sympish movie and reminded me where/how beliefs are implanted into guys' heads.
Lying in bed I sort of knew what was coming. I could notice she hinted at me to take the lead, but I didn't feel like it. I wanted her to do that.
Before getting into it I practiced laying out a contract. I believe I did it at the proper time, but would like some advice on that. I laid it out, but looking back on it now I would have changed how I went about it.
I asked her what she was looking for. Next time I will layout what I'm looking for. She fronted on me and acted childish when I asked her what she's looking for. Her response was something along the line of, "What do you mean? I'm not looking for anything". It showed her lack of sexual maturity, but this for me is the type of stuff I see when dealing with college girls with little experience. I remember me visualizing writing up this thread and asking about contracts.
I let it be, asked no more, and went on enjoying the movie. Minutes later she said, "TheDude you don't like talking while watching a movie?". This is where it gets juicy. "Of course not, that would takeaway from the movie". Then, she makes the move and initiates our first kiss.
Before NF and investing into myself, this was a folk-tale/myth type of experience for me. One you would dream of in my shoes. Now, it seems to be more of reality. The past few girls I've seen have been doing more of the lifting than me.
Our kiss led to some hotter and more energy consuming things, but wow was she into it!
At that moment I remembered 2 things:
1) Kidds post on taking two women, one who is into you and invested, another that is not. The one invested will have the time of her life, even if you last like Minute Rice. The other, not so much even if you fuck her for 20 minutes.
2)
"Chase a whore, you get a chump's weak cop,
Stalk a whore, you get a pimp's strong cop."
She wanted to fuck me BAD and she wasted NO time getting what she wanted!
After the deed she opened up and exposed her desire for me some more.
H: This was a long time coming!
D:
This confirmed all of my observations and stacking evidence was dead on before, which translates into more confidence trusting in what I see, feel, and think while observing. Even if it's far out, if it came up I should analyze it and see if it is valid.
We chatted for a bit, I guess it was break-time
.
I wanted to probe some more and confirm some more things.
(paraphrasing)
H: I didn't think you liked me.
D: I thought it was obvious.
H: No, I mean you never made a move at me or anything.
D: (
patience bitch!) I thought that was obvious why not, cause of the program guidelines.
H: You thought we would get caught if we hooked up while on term?
D: Didn't want to risk it.
She mentioned how it was good that it happened the way it happened. All of that confirmed my gut was dead on with what it saw and felt.
I've been reading on "keepers" and she is fitting the mold, but I'm not as worried about that right now. I'm home now, and happy to be alone.
To end this story, she pretty much couldn't get enough of me last night AND this morning! My peepee is sore and will need some recovering, but I have plans with another female friend tonight. She is 6 years older than me. It'll be nice to compare and contrast the age difference.
"Build it and they will come"