Hey guys,
I broke up with my girlfriend because she wanted things to get more serious (more commitment) and I don't want commitment at the moment....
It was a nice break up and we are still friends.
After we broke up she called me the next day and told me that it was hard for her, I told her that I'm sorry but if she wants commitment I'm not the guy for the job....
I have learned some things from this relatioship here are just a few of them:
1. be honest
With power and you will gain respect.
2. Never worry about the relationship too much (be a little bit indifferent)
3. Lead
4. Don't 'try' to bring out her natural character- be grounded in your own reality and she will bring it out...
5. If she gives you 'sex and the city' style tests: make fun of them. That's awsome and it works
6. Go after what you want and don't be ashamed that you want sex....
7. Don't spend a lot of money and don't play the courtship game (on our first date I just bought her coffee)
8. Don't worry about what she is thinking, you are the more importent person in the relationship.
And finally:
9. you don't need to go to another country to have success (maybe in another country it's easier but you can have success in your own culture\country
)
I'm going to a short two weeks vacation with my family to Thailand. I'll be one week with my family and one week on my own.
I'll keep you guys posted about that on another thread.
Cheers