To continue this thread from the original post...
It has been about a week, and the results have only accelerated.
My phone is now blowing up on a regular basis during the evenings with texts from various different women. (I think it's up to 4 now)
This change has escalated so fast, I'm almost preventing myself from interacting with any more people to slow it down, but I now know that is a holdover of the fear that I used to have. I recognize it in real-time, and laugh it off. That was the old, broken, way I once viewed the world. The new view is one of abundance and self-direction.
The weekend brought further escalation of this, when I attend a birthday party with some family for my young nephew. I feel relaxed, as there is just no way the pattern can continue at a family gathering, I can take a break from meeting any more women for the day. The audience just isn't there... so I thought.
Two family members were sitting at another table from me, with a married friend of one of them. This was a table of all women, about my age. Out of the blue, one of them asks 'Hey ***, what are you up to today?'...asking about my employment. I recognize this immediately for what it is, and start to laugh, and come back with 'Oh, about a buck eighty, buck eighty-five'. Now I'm in a relatively well off profession, so I was just joking around. It turns out my recognition of what was happening was validated when I hear one of them say
"oh, yeah he would be perfect for her. Don't worry, I already took a picture of ***(me) and sent it to her. She says they are going to have some fun together."
. This was referring to the sister of the friend that was there(not related to me, of course)
So, I am now attracting women that are not even near me, in real-time! I didn't even know this was a thing that happened before now.
For anyone who doubts that you need to work on your inside(mindset) in order to see results on the outside, I can NOT stress it enough. The answers you are looking for are not found anywhere 'out there', they will only be found inside. DO THE WORK!
Now, I need to focus on keeping this all moving in a direction that
I want, and not getting pulled into any 'traps'. I know the journey is not done yet, and I think this is going to be the most challenging part to overcome and change from my past interactions. I do believe that from the internal confidence I now seem to have, the answers will come to me in the situations exactly when I need them. I'd ask for advice, but this has to be a path I make for myself.
I'm excited to see what comes next.