Natural Freedom

http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/forums

Talks about how we are conditioned to be nice guys since childhood and how we can break free.Breaking free exercises are very helpful.
Honestly this coupled with the forum here is what has helped me the most.

I got the shivers just looking at the page

...do what helps you, (even though much of what you need can be found here)

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

Are the pills in here too sour?

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GMST

That link pretty much soured my mood for the rest of the evening.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

It's not about not being cool to people that deserve it, it's about having self-respect and not tolerating bad behavior from others...which "the nice guy" lacks. Fuck I hate that bad boy / nice guy shit, everyone gets it confused.

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

Strange how the whole thing gets so misconstrued...

Give people the benefit of the doubt off the jump..if they are nice be nice back. If not don't be.

Aside from the obvious point that nice guys lack the right mindset. The other thing is that they're trying to calibrate this whole thing as finding an internal emotionally static point where everything will mesh perfectly. (Listening to the story in their mind)

But even if you do calibrate everything to the point where your happy, others aren't gonna notice it a lot of the time. Because they are listening to their own story.

That site makes me

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

TREAT OTHERS ACCORDINGLY...that is all.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

So what you guys are saying is that the only thing you need to do is to accept yourself? And that gauging yourself to see if you have eliminated nice guy behavior(which according to the site takes time) is a waste of time? I do kind of align more with what is written here and finding your own path vs following someone program...I do admire that many of you here are nonconformists and that is what i am after

Trust your instincts.

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

Stop being mr nice guy - become mr bad boy - it all looks like pua / "dating niche" / "follow my system to get laid" in different clothes to appeal to different personality types.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTXz8xMaJi4

THIS.

Also, how about just being yourself, doing what you feel like doing? How about giving to give and not to get, unattached to the outcome?

No need for labels or biases. No more nice guys, no more bad boys. We are unique persons, let's embrace the fact.

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The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it's conformity.