And peregrinus. I asked you in a pm a while ago about haters and you said that it has nothing to do with you personally and that it fades when they get close enough to actually see you. Why didn`t it fade last night. Others feel free to answer too
Please refrain from paraphrasing me.
So much gets lost in the shortening of the message, remember others are reading this also.
My actual response was:
Nothing is black and white. There are always shades of grey somewhere if you look hard enough.
Haters, big subject, yet also a small one.
How about as an experiment, think about women and their 'tests', now think about haters in the same way....
I shine and let people deal with their insecurities.
I also go in under the radar, not hiding myself while I do it, toning it down some, not all though.
I used to attract haters when I was younger and was watching out for them, due to some earlier experiences.
Nowadays I do not watch out for them, funnily I do not come across them that often now. If I do, usually once they get face to face with me the hate part goes away. In a lot of senses the haters are feeding off you, give them no food and they will starve. Hiding yourself away merely feeds them more in my experience, rearing up in their presence also does the same.. So just carry on being yourself.
There is a reason they are hating and it has nothing to do with you (On a base level)
This is also tied into the concept of the mirror.
If you think about it you will realise why, you already know why.