I think I let it go already:) (Or maybe I'm just fooling myself, but that nasty feeling is gone). Kidd tell me what do You guys mean by that-now I fell like this socially retarded kid in playground that doesn't know what other kids are talking about:P:P
This is what Women do. I also do it, because I know how and i like to play them at their own games. It can be fun fighting fire with fire, but fighting fire with water is best
My Ex G/F broke up with me many months ago- I wasn't offering enough, which is fair, but a man must stick to his principles of not catering to needy individuals. Anyhow, when she did it I was very hurt and started to question myself alot. She was with another guy within 2 weeks, if that. She cannot be on her own, which ironically decreases my attraction to her. 2 weeks after she was seeing him, she calls me and tells me she left the relationship before it was over. 3 weeks after that, she is calling me asking for sex advice(!), and asking whether I felt the same as her in that we had a different sexual relationship to anyone she's ever been with. 2 weeks after that she is sending me a poem that she wrote about us during our time together. She said she really wanted me to have it, because it is very charged(emotionally/sexually).
Now, why would she be doing all these things? A women who is over her ex does not keep them on the leash. I perceive her actions as making sure I don't forget her, which I had basically done before each time she initiates contact again. So it works! She needs to keep one claw in you, keep that carrot dangling. It's very clever and extremely ruthless of them. The reason why she did these things to me was because I created enough space for her to need to.
Try an experiment; Don't initiate any contact with her, see what happens. It will be entirely predictable.