1. Because I focus too much in their front
2. Because I don't believe if I put down my own boundaries they will accept I suppose it's coming from the point of view that there are an unlimited amount of guys vying for their attention. Why would I even show up on their radar when I wan to live my own life and not get married. I don want to be their pawn so why would they pick me when they can have a guy that will give them
The materialistic deal that I will not
They WANT you coz you DON'T CARE unlike all those suckers ...
True, I also had told her to do her ex, she had told me once that while I loved her, she knew he was still in love with her. So I asked her why she was still with me?