A girl I used to have a thing with recently messaged me on fb after like 7 months. I hadn't seen her for like a 2 month span in the summer. I see her time to time.
Last night I was glancing toward her to see if she was looking she was a few times. She seemed different and open to me. She moved toward me, to a room I was in or near me a few times.
Before she said she wanted to be friends, but still hang out, talk, and whatever. I was really needy and insecure with her.
I thought she was avoiding me, I've been fine without her. If she wanted to talk to me I would've at least responded.
Not sure what she thought was going on. She's friends with a lot of my friends. She met most of them through me. Or at least I had some help. Like getting her invited to go somewhere with a mixed group. I think she would've still made the same friends without me. I've thought maybe she feels she needs to be cool with me so she can be cool with the group and she doesn't have to like hide. We usually don't come around each other. By groups I should say groups that are all connected like a Venn Diagram.
My thoughts:
Friends? I'm not texting first or responding much or hanging out outside a group. Much time invested? Nah
Message:
Hi, Look I know its weird with everything that happened.. And I honestly didn't want it to be like this. I don't hate you and I still want to be friends and like talk. So I'm sorry if I hurt you or anything. And can we be friends again? If not thats okay!
She still sees value she wants. I have to respond or else I'll get a bad rap. Having her as a friend is against my attraction. ^How to say so in an acceptable way?