Can't remember how I found you guys. I think I had been browsing some of the seduction community forums, and a reference was made to this forum, can't remember exactly.
Anyway, this forum, and the Attraction Institute (LoGun - I have seen him post here a couple times, actually), were the only ones that seemed to promote authentic behaviour (as well as spiritual development), as opposed to learning a bunch of bullshit routines, and were therefore the only ones I remained interested in.
Some of the ideas promoted in this site (especially pertaining to the social matrix) were a bit hard to swallow at first, but as it is with all things meaningful, I kept finding myself drawn back to this site, and the ideas would make more sense with each visit.
The thing is, I have always found society to be absolute bullshit, and most people around me to be drones (if you think about it, almost everyone is a sheep in one way or another - and the degree merely varies from person to person; that's been my take on it, anyway). But the things you guys discuss regarding a) women, and b) ego are a little deeper than I had gone (although I was beginning to make some of these realisations on my own anyway......)
Sorry I couldn't be more specific about how I found you guys; The last few months have seen me ALL OVER THE PLACE when it comes to social dynamics as seen through the lens of spirituality, so everything's been a blur......
welcome roark,
it's funny you mention this because in the past I used to go to other PUA forums and mention this place. The responses were: dismissing this place, quizzical looks and shrugged shoulders.
so at one point I stopped and said: whoever needs to find this place will find it...
I also got kicked out of two seduction forums because the guys running it are selling seduction programs and boot camps so they want guys to keep chasing women I guess...
The Kidd got kicked out of the pirate boat (Zan's forum) because he was 'bad for business' (not by selling anything- but because he said truths about women and people that Hans didn't want people to know, I guess...)
yes in general: most people prefer to be drones and not question what's going on around them, but what the heck- if that's what they want, let them be...