Leigh, you can't honestly tell me that this great girlfriend you have (I'm not putting you or her down, don't know you's and I'm not a complete cunt) never tests you, never gets annoying, never does dumb shit that makes you shake your head? If not then you're either with an angel or not seeing the forest for the trees. But they're far from perfect, it's in her nature to test and always be looking to get ahead and go for something better, they're never satisfied man.
I'm definitely not saying that.
Tests - She tests me all the time. ALL the time. She's constantly testing me just in the way that I'm testing her. I have standards and I'm only willing to accept a very specific kind of person in my life and she's exactly the same. I wouldn't be with her if she wasn't the kind of person that didn't test me. I don't want some kind of hopeless, goalless, needy and dependent woman who doesn't feel like she can't do any better with her life than accepting the first thing to come along that makes her feel less lonely. I want a strong, confident woman who has standards and is willing to fight for them. That's why I would never be with a woman that didn't test me.
Annoying things - Of course she does annoying things. But when she does them, I tell her and she stops. Just in the same way that when I'm doing something that's annoying her, she tells me and I stop.
Dumb shit that makes me shake my head - Yes, she does this as well. But it doesn't matter because I don't need her to do things that make me 'nod my head'. The thing I love most about her is her unpredictability. She's excited, she's emotional, she's gets herself in stupid situations by doing stupid things but that's ok because I'm not looking for a business partner. I don't date with women because they're good at maths. I don't sleep with women because of their sound logic and ability to accurately produce legal documents. I date women because they're fun and exciting. I've got my shit under control. I've got my shit handled. If there's a problem, I know I can solve it and I know that I don't need her around to make all the difficult shit in life go away. I've dealt with my shit and now I really like being around exciting and unpredictable people.
Of course women are going to test and of course they're always looking to get ahead. I do exactly the same thing. I'm always looking for my perfect match. I'm not with my girlfriend because she's the unlucky one who happened to fall for my stupid tricks and games. I'm with her because I haven't found anyone better. Anyone. And she's the same.
I'm with her because she's the most attractive woman I've ever met. If she want the most attractive woman I'd ever met, I wouldn't be with her. It's that simple.
She's with me because I'm the most attractive Man she's ever met. If I wasn't, she wouldn't be with me. It's that simple.
Are you trying to tell me that you don't test women to find out if they're the kind of woman you want? Of course you do. That's why you get rid of them when they give you the shits.
Are you trying to tell me that you're not trying to get ahead? That you're just satisfied with the one girl and don't look around? Come on...
ps: You don't know me, so don't say "If you live your life this way this is what you'll attract", I attract fucking greatness
You already said that you attract needy, clingy, dependent women. That's a really weird definition of greatness.