I always knew online dating is hundred times harder for men.. God after reading this it seems even worse
I'm working on my indifference, but reading stuff like this is like carrying a big rock on my back
Oh, and indifference is effectively impossible to convey in writing. The most effective levels of conversation are left out.
So you say ____ in a message? It's preemptive at best, and within the context of a dating site you have effectively taken all of the mystery out. She knows what you want, there isn't any challenge.
It raises lots of questions from her view.
Why are you here? Must not be high value. Kinda a double standard but thats the way it is lol.
What's wrong with him?
The reverse of this is true.
If she is actually willing to meet you and not just on an ego trip. What is wrong with her? Prolly some psycho bitch, or has some kinda std.
Plus nothing quite compares to when the look on their face when they give in. Because you were patient and beat them at their own game? It's healing
and online dating wouldn't deliver that kind of awesome