@Kidd
Not to bring up the past or anything But:
when you married your ex-wife, wasn't she all sweet\good and yet in the end: after the marriage she fliped (changed)?
There's no past to bring up, smugalicious...
I'VE NEVER BEEN MARRIED.
Don't spread that type of FUD about me, intentionally nor unintentionally...get your facts straight before you post something that could be personal information...or at least pose it as a question to cover your ass (i.e. Kidd, weren't you married at one point?). Got it?
GOOD.
That said, I have a 3 year old son an ex I was with for 5 years. I knew what I was getting into when I was dealing with her...really never had any intention of marrying her. I'm me...I was managing the relationship just fine and dealing with the minor speedbumps she would throw at me with aplomb! The curve ball was that I had a traumatic life changing event happen which I don't want to discuss...that left me unable to
FINISH HOW I STARTED. It also left me emotionally vulnerable...which is when she saw her chance to strike. It was during that time that she got pregnant and was attempting to steal the ball and try turn me into a married mangina. Luckily, I managed to snap out of it,
CHECK (DUMP) THAT BITCH, and
START FRESH.
If you read a few of those stories posted over there on that forum...you will begin to see a common theme emerge...neediness. Look at this quote:
"I, like many men, am starving for affection, kindness, respect and an ounce of tenderness from their spouse or any woman for that matter."*
...and that about sums up those whiny bastards. ANY woman, for that matter? Really?
Like I said...marrying the WRONG women for the WRONG DAMN reasons. Plus, I'm sure they are unaware of Marquee Value and as such marry bitches on the wrong side of the curve (refer to the graph I posted here:
viewtopic.php?f=17&t=1792 )
I'm not with my girl for ANY of those mangina ass reasons...that's why, in addition to other reasons like Marquee Value, should I marry my current girlfriend, we would be fine.
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