Guys don't have any damn patience...they are convinced that unless they hound a chick to death, someone else will be doing just that and making her forget about him. This couldn't be further than the truth!
If you know how to read body language well, you can plant subconscious seeds that may take a little while to blossom, and while it is growing, she probably will be dealing with other guys. But guess what? I promise you, if you did it right, she will still be thinking about you constantly. Every guy she gets with in the interim will only serve to show that you are REALLY what she wants. The key is balance...ebb and flow.
So sensei, I've been applying patience to this girl that I dig and what happened was she first contacted me on FaceBook via chatting. She knows that I'm interested in her because I chased her. When I stopped and practiced indifference (I still am), that's what happened; she initiated contact.
It happened last week when I logged in my FaceBook account, she was also online. I ignored her for 15 minutes because I
was doing something else and out of the blue, she said 'hi' to me. We chatted for like 15 minutes and she had to go because she needed to help her mom.
That same day in the afternoon, I logged in again and she was online. I just posted something on my status then logged out. After a few hours, I logged in again and here's what she posted on her status (she was already offline):
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coz f one day u wake up and find dat u're missing me, and ur heart starts to wonder where on this earth i can be,. thinking maybe u'll come back here 2 d place dat wed meet, and u see me waiting for u on the corner of the street,.
So im not moving
I'm not moving.
:("
Then another one...
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thinking maybe u'll come back here 2 d place dat wed meet, and u see me waiting for u on the corner of the street,.
So im not moving
I'm not moving.
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This girl is smart. What she meant by the corner of the street is the lower corner on the left sidebar on facebook where you can see who among your friends is online. The place that we'd meet is FaceBook. I actually have some more evidences which also convinced me that I'm the one she's talking about because it's just too coincidental. As Kidd said: "There are no coincidences."
I want to give some details: She first chased me. When I started showing interest, she would not look me in the eye and ignore me or it looked like she's ignoring me. So I stopped and am trying to focus on myself now. We still don't talk personally because I'm applying what Kidd and Grinus said that 'I don't have to do anything.'
I'm also applying what The Kidd said to me in Zan's forum a few years back:
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Start IMPROVING YOURSELF. Be is physically, mentally, or spiritually, start reaching your potential. The more you focus on you, the more others will focus on you as well. Also, study "Covert Tactics" intensely...these are the tools you will need once your mindset really starts to gel."
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If you focus on yourself, you'll be to busy dealing with being seduced to worry about doing any seducing."
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Once you realize that a woman is going to do what a woman is going to do, regardless of how much effort you put or don't put into it, you will no longer be attached to outcome."
One of our conversations via PM:
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Me: What if she text messages me? Should I reply? I want to be really busy with improving my game thru your guidance my master. Thanks!
The Kidd: You can reply if you want to...no pressure to do it immediately. This is the beauty of my system...it takes all of the stress off of YOU and puts it on HER. Since you guys are just friends, treat her like you would any other friend...except you are just too damn busy all the time!
So basically, speak when spoken to. Say hi when you see her...but then sometimes, act like you don't see her and pass by like you are in a hurry or lost in thought. She should then try to speak to you. This is a good sign."
So the reason why we don't still talk personally even though we're classmates for most of my subjects is because she hasn't talked to me yet. She's still embarrassed to sit near me unlike when she was chasing me. But the thing is... when she sits near me (her seat is in front of me). I noticed that her body would move back-and-forth into a side-way position meaning that the right side of her body is in front of me.
And when I looking at my right (like talking with my seatmates), she would quickly glance at me then turn to her right (her seatmate).
So Kidd and Grinus, should I continue ignoring her (meaning don't initiate eye contact, talking, texting, fb chatting unless she does it first) or should I go over and talk to her now?
Thanks.