In another post Aztecsfinest wrote this:
she one day randomly blocked me off of msn and I never heard from her again.
This seems to happen a lot! It always bothers me (yeah, I know it shouldn't...) and I don't understand why it happens. The weird thing is that the girls who do this are girls that
I swear were into me! Girls that are just friends never do this.
Sometimes girls that I swear were into me just start acting
weird.
For example: there was this girl I knew was visiting the same musicfestival as me. So I sent her a message to ask if she wanted to meet up. No reaction... Then my friend whom she also knows sends a similar text message the day after. She reacted pretty quickly to his message. I know she has already had a boyfriend at that time, so she didn't need to meet me for that purpose. But I swear she was at least somewhat attracted to me before. Now why would she not react to my message, but did she immediately react to the message my friend sent her? I don't have the impression she was ever attracted to my friend. So eventually we all meet up: me, two of my friends, this girl and her boyfriend. She introduces us to her new boyfriend. She was clearly and accurately monitoring my reaction when she did so!
(oh, she didn't know that I knew she had a boyfriend. I already knew but she didn't know that.) After a while one of my friend decides to ask her why she didn't reply to my message...
Her reaction was like: A message? I didn't receive a message from Gonzo...
I said: You must have got it, because I sent it with conformation message.
Then she replied that she had a new phone-number.
So my friends says: Then how could you get my message?
Finally she admitted that she did get the message, but she didn't know it was me... That is what I mean by acting weird.
I'm sorry for the long story, but I didn't know how else to illustrate it.
But a lot of time girls just disappear from MSN, Facebook, or they just never text or call back again. I would understand this if they were not attracted at all, but I have the strong impression that most of them are!
This anyone have an idea why this happens...?
- Do her feelings get too strong? So strong that she can't handle it anymore?
- Did she find another boyfriend, so that she doesn't need you anymore? If so, are there changes she will come back?
- Or is she really just not into you anymore?
I know all of the above are possible explanations, but which is the most likely? I am talking about girls that are or were at one point
clearly into you.
Gonzo