well I admit I got a little confused because I thought an X-Factor should have A B C D traits.
A. nice and not a bitch
B. respect men
C. takes care of her man
D. will be a good mother.
So I was looking at it from a more general point of view...
But Kidd, you said that your keeper is nice to you but if I met her (for example) she could act rude or bitchy to me?
...and they WILL have those traits...if YOU
are what they are looking for!
If you met my keeper in passing on the street and tried to chat her up, yeah, she might hurt your feelings.
She'd be nice if I introduced you tho.
I remember I was seeing this girl once and we went to the movies. We had just gotten there and the lights were still on before the previews, etc.. and this girl walks in. So the girl I'm seeing says to me "Omg look at what she's wearing, she looks horrible", because she wasn't wearing brand x or whatever.
I looked at her and said "How the fuck do you know that she doesn't have kids and all her money goes to them or something, so she doesn't care to have all designer shit!".
Long story short is I ended it with her because of that. This girl was all over my shit, what you would call a legite X-Factor to me, but it's like that quote "You can tell someone's true chracter by how they treat someone who can do nothing for them."
What Sniper and I are saying is that even though she may be an X-Factor and desperate for YOU, if she's a cunt to other people then I don't consider her worthy...that's where the confusion comes in - X-factor for you vs. A nice girl that isn't a bitch to everyone else.