Natural Freedom

Alchemist, could you explain the highlighted text?

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

Yeah, basically I'm having sex on a regular basis because I developed indifference...shortly before that happened I was so jaded and fed up with women that I put that quest to the side and chose to focus on my goals instead, I stopped watching porn and jerkin it completely for a few weeks, in order to focus my mind on what I had to do.

Then I started noticing I was getting female attention because they saw my potential, I didn't act on any of it because by that time I really didn't care anymore, that helped me to be comfortable and confident enough to not care whether or not I would ever have sex, I genuinely did not care anymore...does that make sense?.

I realized what was truly more important in my life, and this thing called sex.....I never had it so what was I missing out on anyway

PS- Kidd's Skype calls were the catalyst for this.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

Thanks for the response.
it's not for women why I asked. there are a lot of things that I am doing ( working out, trying to really remember all the key things posted in here) but sometimes it seems as if I am going no where. sometimes it seems as if I am over loading. that line I marked really had an impact on me though, it makes me feel better about things I want to achieve. so now I will do the work because they are beneficial to me now and in the long run and not necessarily because they will attract Women.


NB. I'm kinda taking a break from these females (in a physical sense too) I'm just studying them from a distance.

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

None of the things I do are to attract women but the end result will attract more women ironically because of status, which is ultimately what started getting me some female attention, so I understand how Resonance feels, I wonder too how I can be in the company of a woman without this feeling of doubt in the back of my mind of how genuine she is, it's probably there to keep me from doing or thinking something stupid...

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

If one doesn´t have any sexual experience, the good thing is that
absolutely no sexual confidence is "needed" at that point.
That´s Being Real and OK with it.

The gap between experience is bridged by more or like exactly
how Alchemist described it.

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Nice stuff alchemist

Thanks dude.

I still have ways to go but I'm doing a helluva lot better than I was a couple years ago, thanks to Kidd.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

Alchemist, you are an inspiration, can't believe how well you seem to be doing and how insightful your posts are + how many make me laugh.

You get what you pay for...

Truth be told, everything I've ever written just barely scratches the surface. Like Fullmetal says, its the one on one Skyping that made the difference.

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