My latest "technique" is called suffering. Extremely effective, if you let it work with you. I want/desire things, I don't see them, I suffer, I feel the emotions, I accept them, let go of them and I'm softer afterward.
I think about the need to waste this time in this way, I wonder what the fuck I'm doing desiring things I won't have, and I decide to let go of all of them. All. And I don't give a shit if that last one is a desire, that goes away too if it is.
Why is there a huge difference between wishing and just knowing? When I just know things happen, and I don't care a little bit if they don't. When I wish, they don't happen and I suffer, only to eventually happen (sometimes) and I'm happy for a short period of time.
Why do I waste my energies playing these stupid games, when I've always been good enough, women have always been good enough, and more relationships just don't happen no matter how much both me and women desire it? Why am I making it difficult when I love things to be natural and easy?
Fair enough, good bye desires, good bye efforts, good bye trying, it came the time of not-doing and acting only from heart. Good bye illusions of the future, hello present moment.
I'm going to take absolute care of me, only of me because of me. I don't mind being alone the rest of my life, well... my whole life, fuck it. I'll survive without desires, as I'm surviving without my objects of desire. I don't know what's going to happen, and I don't care. See you guys, it's been fun to share time with you. I won't come back until I'm way clearer of bullshit in my mind. It's going to be better for everyone. Take care and responsibility!