When I saw him and 'confronted' him, I had no negative feelings. His kids all had something to say and when my turn came to speak I said everything I needed to say in about 5 minutes. I barely remember a thing I said as it came from a deep place and not rehearsed. I only remember being still and economic with my words, but my siblings told me it was the most epic shit I've ever said.

To my surprise he sat there, listened and took it in. We've met up a couple times since and we've actually had good conversations since.