I finally learned what true qualifying is.
Met up with a buddy and some of his friends. He tells me his female friend is super into me. She was beautiful by probably a ton of people's standards. Yet I didn't feel that certain whatever in spite of her being 'societal hot'
Said to my friend 'flattering but just not *my* type. Let's just let it be and enjoy ourselves'. Night ended with a 'nice to meet you'. Yet she still had that look in her eye.
True qualifying is so different than the lame try hard 'oh, you don't like traveling?! This is sooo not going to work' that is teasing if done in the right manner, but no qualifying like I thought...Unless you genuinely would not give a girl that didn't like traveling the time of day