@Vegano - Good question! It wouldn't bother me anymore. I now see myself as a prize so women aren't really as important to me now because they need me, not the other way around. But... That doesn't really happen anymore man. I spent months telling myself I was sexy and was never noticed by anyone. For the past month, I've been getting looks/long stares everywhere I go. Typically, MOST women that I pass in a public place, will notice my presence, either a glance or a stare. The only ones that don't pay attention are usually the ugly ones or really old ones
Speaking of which. I went to my sister's house yesterday to pick up her dog. As I'm pulling into the driveway I see two extremely hot girls walking their dogs in short-shorts and tank-tops. I go inside, get the dog, walk outside, and to my surprise both of them are starring into my eyes and won't look away. They were atleast 40 feet away.
These are the affirmations I've been using for the past 3 weeks:
1) I love women
2) Women love me
3) I don’t care what people think of me
4) Women want to fuck me everywhere I go
5) I deserve to have beautiful women in my life
6) I am fearless
7) I am the prize – I let women come to me
8) I am a really cool guy
9) I am very comfortable with my sexuality
10) I am relaxed and comfortable in every situation
11) Women come into my life easily and freely
I thought the belief, "I am the prize" already internalized but it seems like it did last night. Having dreams about women chasing you is great!
Haha Anyways, all except number 7 and 11 I've been using for the past 2 months. Telling yourself "I am a really cool guy" has had an amazing effect on me. Now people love me. I get invited to parties every week, sometimes by people I hardly even know. And when I get there, people seem intimidated by my presence but as soon as I leave everyone is like aww man you're leaving? High-five, etc. etc. It was great to meet you man! and I never even talked to them once.
When doing the affirmations you should use your senses. What I mean by this is really visualize yourself in that situation. It can be hard but the more real it seems the better it's going to hit the subconscious. So if you tell yourself "Women want to fuck me everywhere I go" I will visualize myself walking into a place and women coming out of nowhere touching me, grabbing me, kissing me, eyeing me up and down, etc. I will try to feel their touch and imagine myself seeing them directly in front of me.
I used natural grounding for about 2 months in the beginning of the process. It did help me out a lot. I stopped because I was spending a lot of time doing MM and NG and decided I didn't need to do so much work everyday. What I noticed is that I am practically back to the state where I was when doing NG and affirmations together, on my affirmations alone. So in the end, they both seem to get to you to the same place.