Hey guys, I'm new here to the forum but I've been talking to Shay for a while now and he mentioned talking about MM because that's what I do. Then I saw this post and had to comment right away. So here's my feedback on MM.
Let me first start off, I was reading another thread earlier today that mentioned Cory Skyy was successful because he was (a) born with natural qualities and (b) is extroverted. Let me say... We are all born with natural qualities but we loose them over time. MM and Natural Grounding do the same thing, they take you back to that natural state and eliminate the ego. Cory Skyy is not extroverted. In fact, he lets it known that he is not the most extroverted person. The reason people think he is is because of the way he presents himself and his energy.
I started MM about 6 months ago now (December). Before I started MM I was probably the shyest guy you'd ever meet. Usually I couldn't reply to anything anyone would say, I would be that guy just giggling and agreeing with everyone. I had horrible self-esteem, I mean I weighed 240 lbs back in 2008 and had the worst tremors/twitching a person could have. I didn't know why I had it (I still do at times) but I would just shake uncontrollably in every situation, especially around women! I could hardly look a person in the eyes, I could hardly keep a conversation. With women, I was just a nice/polite guy but I would get so tense and nervous around them. I remember right before I started this a really cute girl started talking to me one day and I stared at the ground during the entire conversation.
You guys are forgetting the number 1 thing Cory Skyy teaches, Eye Seduction! MM doesn't necessarily mean women literally come to you and say hey let's go fuck! Some may... HAHA But the majority won't do that. MM is about making yourself into the best man you can be. That is living a life without women as a number 1 priority. Living for yourself if you will! It's about having rock star presence everywhere you go that magnetically attracts people to you because you are high quality man (this includes women). Eye seduction is a non-verbal way of connection emotionally with a woman without any verbal communication. It's under the radar. It works the same as flirting does, but I think it's a more powerful form of flirting.
I still have my neediness towards women but I can tell you it's not to the extent it was months ago and it definitely isn't to the extent that I had a few weeks ago. I went down many different paths on MM, I thought I was doing the program right all along, telling myself I was an alpha male made me feel more like a PUA. Just recently I started using affirmations telling myself I am the Prize and I let women come to me and the results are amazing. Whatever you tell your subconscious mind, whatever it believes will become your reality in given time.
I'm not an extroverted guy, I'm introverted I keep to myself. But! I'm not like that because I am shy or unsocial. I'm like that because I like to do my own thing and I have nobody to impress. I could care less what anyone thinks of me now, woman or man. I'm more of a quiet confident guy, think James Bond. When I'm around women I will talk to them but a lot of it is small talk, because I don't have to have an hour long conversation to get them interested in me anymore. Haven't you guys read that the key to getting women is 93% non-verbal? That is body-language and eye contact. The two main things MM teaches you. The added benefit, it turns you into a magnetically attractive guy because of that energy and presence that you have.
Let me share some of my success:
When I first started this process it was around my 21st birthday. We went out to dinner and a club with a bunch of friends. My sister brought her hot ass friend (a 10 in my book) who wasn't talkative to me whatsoever the only other time I saw her. She ignored my existence. When arriving to their house to pick them up in the limo we had, her friend smiles at me and gives me this huge hug. In my mind, I told myself ahh she wants me
I get into the limo (she's with a guy BTW). And she's starring at me. This is when I initiate eye seduction, so I gaze back into her eyes for about a minute and she giggles looking down. This happened over the entire night about 4-5 more times. By the end of the night, she followed me up to the bar, grabbed my waist, started touching me, but it didn't go too far because she was with her guy.
I went off track for a while after that like I said. But there was a party I went to. 2 girls there I knew liked me, the others I just met. When I walked into the party I projected that energy and a girl immediately says YOU! What's your name??? So I replied and got her name. She starts playing eye game with me and smiling at me. The other girls are shy but they start opening up to me. One of these shy girls also starts playing eye game with me but she holds it for a very long time. I know she wants me at this point and I barely said a word to her. I sit on the couch, one of the girls that likes me comes up and sits next to me (we barely talked btw) and starts touching my thigh. Girl 2 comes up (the one smiling at me) and sits on the other side of me and starts touching my other thigh. Another girl comes and sits around us just to be involved. I ended up writing my number down her arm
and she texted me 2 seconds later.
This was around the time I started going off track and instead of being magnetic I became a typical PUA but now I'm on the right track. Last week I went to a party. Now that I'm building up this "I am the prize" mindset women are responding to me that way. I walk into the party and immediately the hottest girl there says "YOU! What's your name???". I get her name and then her friend is like HEY! I'm Hannah! I walk out on the back patio to smoke a cigarette and 3 other girls are out there curious as to who I am. This was a night where I was feeling extremely uncomfortable and nervous due to the new beliefs my subconscious was accepting but I still got attention from all the girls. I left for a little bit with a friend to get some drinks, come back and I hear a girl on the balcony yelling YAY! He came back! (I never talked to her
). I walk out on the back patio, she's all over me, puts her arm around my waist, etc.
About a month ago I went to another party. I introduced myself to this girl who wouldn't look me in the eyes. She was cute, turned out to be a total bitch though. Anyways, she was shy around me. I didn't talk to her but I started noticing her starring at me. So I stared back. She would hold it for a while and then look away. She kept doing it. Eventually towards the end of the night we started position ourselves near one another. I went outside for a smoke and the only time she ever went outside was when I was out there. And then she makes an excuse ahh I gotta get out of here. I initiate conversation with her but she's really shy and can barely talk to me but everyone else she's fine talking to. I know inside, she really wants me to grab her and fuck her. Anyways, I was uncomfortable that night too so I didn't do anything with her but I left and the next morning she requests me as a friend on Facebook.
Now when I'm walking down the streets, doesn't matter where I go, people stare at me. Sometimes it's weird because guys will stare into my eyes but hey I just ignore it. I've lost most of my ego, it only really comes up when I'm beginning to take on new beliefs (changing my affirmations) but I'm trying to stay away from doing that. Women stare into my eyes like crazy. Sometimes it's overwhelming like the other day I was kind of uncomfortable but I walked into Target and 6 women are standing there staring at me as I enter. I ignore them (not my types) and a hot girl does it to me, her mother as well. I've done it to girls who are considered 10's. Last weekend I went to a restaurant for mother's day. A 10 was sitting behind me at the bar (we were back-to-back). She walks into the lounge area with her friend. Looks over at me, I look back into her eyes, she looks away. Next thing you know she's back at the bar behind me looking over her shoulder at me. I've also done this with girls at Hooter's. When I walk into there I usually get at least 1 waitress's attention through the eyes alone. And if they are my waitress there is no doubt in my mind they won't place their hands on me by the end of the night.
Guys this type of stuff happens to me everywhere I go thanks to MM. It's not like girls will run up to me and start talking. It has happened though recently in classes I've been in. The majority of the time, women indirectly approach me. Even gorgeous 10's! We make eye contact and they position themselves near me, I will do the same, conversation is initiated, etc. Cory Skyy doesn't approach women. This is his technique. I usually go out and the hottest girl will start making eye contact with me at some point. I have heard stories from friends on MM who have gone into clubs and had random women make out with them, grab them and take them into bathrooms, force them to come home with them, etc. All of that is because these guys believe they are the prize to women, not the other way around. And all of these guys were in the same position I was in before starting MM.
Oh and back to the thing about being introverted. I was never extroverted in any of the above situations. Actually, like I mentioned during most of these encounters I was having horrible discomfort and nervousness because I was transitioning between affirmations. Like I said, it's 93% non-verbal. I said nothing and things started happening just because I showed interest through my eyes alone. However, MM will bring out my extroverted personality because I am comfortable with who I am, etc. Although, I'm not always the most talkative person, I open up to anyone and same in return.