Natural Freedom

I almost find no reason to post anymore because there's so much good info floating around on here that everything's pretty much been said...and everyone here has their shit on lock now from what I can tell, but a clip like this a few years ago would have suckered me in...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KIGa-990 ... r_embedded

Something like this - feeling bad for a chick because shitty things have happened to her, she's slightly less attractive (Not ugly mind you) and insecure would have triggered my nurturing instinct and made me feel "love" or whatever for her...fuck'n horseshit; but you'z know, women being women, if that bitch was hotter and had guys up her ass everyday trying to get with her...the insecurity would be gone so she wouldn't act "nice" to try and win people over anymore and make up for her lack, she'd be acting a whole lot different, like a diva on roids baby!

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

I don't get this part.

What lack? The looks?
She'd be acting, when?, after or before the video, and for what reason?... (if that was the case)

Maybe she didn't even find a reason for posting this quasi-dramatical flash cards... Occupied crying in the shoulders of the nice guys consoling her looking to get into her pants ASAP.

@3:57
Although, it's just the HISTORY of her.
Suffering is triggered when is the believing that things are happening to I.

One day she will die, the video in youtube will dissapear, and there will not be any uncertainty about it, and the people who saw that video would die too (like me), and non of that shit would even matter, why not drop the bomb and dissolve the illusion sooner (attachments).

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GMST

I only watched a bit and realized the tone of it immediately so I stopped...so I'm not sure what happened later.

As for your questions, something you'll have to learn for yourself...

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

Heh
You confuse me. Anyway . . .

I don't care for those questions. I just didn't understand your message that's why I asked.

The above I intended to express, in your original thread was this:

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GMST

I don't agree with everything ManniJa said. However he is on to something...

think about it this way:

If we posted a video about shitty things that have happened to us, Most women (notice I said 'most' not all) won't give a shit about it. Unless we were someone of high value, for example:
if Tom Cruise, Prince Harry or 50 cent posted a video about shitty things that have happened to them- you would see many women feeling sympathy for them and even wanting to 'save them'.

And in the modern media it's all over the place. When women do bad things- they are usually not blamed - it's always someone elses fault. We should feel sympathy for them...
While if a man did something bad- it's always his fault and he should have took responsibility for his actions- we should not feel sympathy for him.

It's hard to say if this is because women don't have the protective and nurturing instinct like men Or because sociaty has put them on a pedestal for too long. It could be both...

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Care to elaborate?

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

I dunno man I know a few attractive women who act insecure and don't feel good about themselves, it's ironic really.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

99.9% of them are insecure as fuck dude, even the super hot ones...but that won't stop them from treating the guys who chase them that they find low value like shit; to the guys they see as high value they'll be sweet as pie to because they want something from them, that where you disagreed with me Sniper?

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

Those are the best ones to fuck with, to a point. My girl has her share of insecurities...and there is no arguement from those who know me that she is very attractive. Turn that negative for her into a plus for you. The key is that I don't cater to her insecurities...quite the contrary, actually...I help her address them head on and am very staunch about putting my foot down if she tries to lean on them. I make her feel great about herself, and help her in school...textbook father figure type shit. This lays a very strong foundation. One day when she looks back at the woman she has become, she will ALWAYS remember that she couldn't have done it WITHOUT ME...and thusly will be eternally grateful.

...and THAT...is the fundamental principle of 'square pimpin'.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

If that's what you meant ManniJa, then I agree....

here a small example:

in my last trip to Thailand I met 4 women from the UK - they were very good looking. They looked down on the Thai took took drivers because took took drivers are poor Men. But when a Thai business man with a nice suit invited them to his club (and told them he would give them free drinks)- all of a sudden they turned nice and sweet.

Edit: also from what I saw, the attractive Thai women who are not poor don't really give the time and day to the poor Thai men. But if a western man comes and they see a western men as high value people- all of a sudden they turn sweet and nice. Already talked about this in my Thailand report.

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Sums up women really well...like David X says, they're not fuck'n nice! But we already knew that.

@Kidd: After your chick becomes a doc how much of an attitude shift do you think there's gonna be?

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

Guys, I suggest a change in viewpoint here.

Esp, sniper, it will answer your questions quite clearly.

It is all about value.

Perceived from the perspective of both sides and how they react to it.. There are two sides to the equation, viewing one without the other gives only a partial view.

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Explain why? it really is very obvious and clear, so plain that a lot of people do not see it.

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This sounds very familiar ^5 Brother

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

Uncharted territory for now...but theoretically, as long as Im not reactive to her increase of status (meaning I don't behave like my value is lowered), everything should be copestetic. That's why it's important not to make your clout/front what defines your existance...I know that she values my intangibles more than my tangibles. She's never had a man not only put her in her place...but also then explain to her why he HAS to and how it will ultimately benefit HER...THAT is why she sticks around. As long as I don't stop being an asshole when warranted, I don't foresee any future issues.

A lot of men feel threatened when their woman 'betters themselves' because of HIS insecurities. It really has nothing to do with her.

Bottom line: Your woman ends up being a reflection of you. The moment you doubt yourself, youre fucked. Only YOU can ultimately fuck it up, directly or indirectly....so...DON'T FUCK IT UP.

FINISH HOW YOU START.
^5 indeed.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

Quoting this because it needs quoting and repeating, and repeating and repeating.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

@Kidd: Haha the whole time I was writing that I was thinking finish how you start...2 muthafuck'n steps ahead of me eh!

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

Smokes!...let's GO!

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

I know, because the guys I mentioned above have high social value (being famous). And I don't....

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

I may be wrong, however that is only half the equation, what about the other half?

You are either ignoring half of the equation or choosing not to mention it..... I would suggest considering the other side also.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

I can dig this.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

*Hands over smokes and jalapeno chips *

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."