lol that's the pirate boat. But If The Kidd wrote it I will read it
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| Author: | Gonzo [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 5:53 pm ] | |
| Post subject: | Indifference: from the other forum... | |
Scarface wrote this in another post:
freespirit422 wrote:
I found a real good explanation by The Kidd!! about indifference on the "other" forum:I should be able to cold approach a woman without giving a fuck, but that's not the case Not giving a fuck, is an extreme place to be at. I never been to place where I didn't give a thing/zero about this matter. The only things I could care zero about and leave me totally cold if I didn't get it, are things I'm not the slightest bit interested in. But since I like sex/dating/etc. with women, I on some level care a little bit about it, so I can't say I don't give a fuck, because I do give a small fuck about it. Thus I think it's normal that going up to chicks, makes you feel certain things (nervous, wanting to try to do well, etc.). Imo, it's just that you shouldn't keep continu hanging in that spontanious (emotional/bilogical/hormonal) response/feeling/emotion. Not giving a fuck imo, is an extreme place (and not sure if realistic); and something leaving you 100% cold can imo only be the case for things you don't care about. If you like sex with women, it's imo normal you care at least a little bit about it, and thus it's normal it doesn't leave you cold (or emotionless/thoughtless) 100%. freespirit422 wrote: I used them as a way to avoid rejection, but rejection shouldn't bother you in the first place. To me, haveing an spontanious feeling/response to a rejection seems normal to me. Also it's biological measured, that loss in most people creates an automatic response in the brain and hormones (and thus emotions/feelings). But I can say for me, that beyond that initial (automatic/spontanious) response (which often lasts like 10 or 20 seconds orso); I have managed to just leave it, and then in me it always just dissapeares/ends. With leaving it, I mean: not trying to do anything with or about it, not trying to change it, and most importantly not thinking about it (in any way, and especially not in away on how to fix/change it). this makes/helps me to stay happy and content (or neutral at least), during my days. http://www.naturalgame.com/showthread.php?t=6623 It helped me to understand how indifference should work. I am going to practise going from emotional to logical. Gonzo |
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| Author: | Sniper [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 7:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Indifference: from the other forum... |
lol that's the pirate boat. But If The Kidd wrote it I will read it
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| Author: | Dali [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 7:15 pm ] | ||
| Post subject: | Re: Indifference: from the other forum... | ||
Scarface wrote this in another post:
I think it covers, magnificently, all the shades of gray that comes about the topic of indifference.
freespirit422 wrote:
I found a real good explanation by The Kidd!! about indifference on the "other" forum:I should be able to cold approach a woman without giving a fuck, but that's not the case Not giving a fuck, is an extreme place to be at. I never been to place where I didn't give a thing/zero about this matter. The only things I could care zero about and leave me totally cold if I didn't get it, are things I'm not the slightest bit interested in. But since I like sex/dating/etc. with women, I on some level care a little bit about it, so I can't say I don't give a fuck, because I do give a small fuck about it. Thus I think it's normal that going up to chicks, makes you feel certain things (nervous, wanting to try to do well, etc.). Imo, it's just that you shouldn't keep continu hanging in that spontanious (emotional/bilogical/hormonal) response/feeling/emotion. Not giving a fuck imo, is an extreme place (and not sure if realistic); and something leaving you 100% cold can imo only be the case for things you don't care about. If you like sex with women, it's imo normal you care at least a little bit about it, and thus it's normal it doesn't leave you cold (or emotionless/thoughtless) 100%. freespirit422 wrote: I used them as a way to avoid rejection, but rejection shouldn't bother you in the first place. To me, haveing an spontanious feeling/response to a rejection seems normal to me. Also it's biological measured, that loss in most people creates an automatic response in the brain and hormones (and thus emotions/feelings). But I can say for me, that beyond that initial (automatic/spontanious) response (which often lasts like 10 or 20 seconds orso); I have managed to just leave it, and then in me it always just dissapeares/ends. With leaving it, I mean: not trying to do anything with or about it, not trying to change it, and most importantly not thinking about it (in any way, and especially not in away on how to fix/change it). this makes/helps me to stay happy and content (or neutral at least), during my days. http://www.naturalgame.com/showthread.php?t=6623 It helped me to understand how indifference should work. I am going to practise going from emotional to logical. Gonzo The extreme duo, heh. |
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| Author: | The Kidd!! [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 8:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Indifference: from the other forum... |
Wow...if THAT ain't a blast from the past!  Good shit. 
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