I dunno man I know a few attractive women who act insecure and don't feel good about themselves, it's ironic really.
Those are the best ones to fuck with, to a point. My girl has her share of insecurities...and there is no arguement from those who know me that she is very attractive. Turn that negative for her into a plus for you. The key is that I don't cater to her insecurities...quite the contrary, actually...I help her address them head on and am very staunch about putting my foot down if she tries to lean on them. I make her feel great about herself, and help her in school...textbook father figure type shit. This lays a very strong foundation. One day when she looks back at the woman she has become, she will ALWAYS remember that she couldn't have done it WITHOUT ME...and thusly will be eternally grateful.
...and THAT...is the fundamental principle of 'square pimpin'.
@Kidd: After your chick becomes a doc how much of an attitude shift do you think there's gonna be?
Uncharted territory for now...but theoretically, as long as Im not reactive to her increase of status (meaning I don't behave like my value is lowered), everything should be copestetic. That's why it's important not to make your clout/front what defines your existance...I know that she values my intangibles more than my tangibles. She's never had a man not only put her in her place...but also then explain to her why he HAS to and how it will ultimately benefit HER...THAT is why she sticks around. As long as I don't stop being an asshole when warranted, I don't foresee any future issues.
A lot of men feel threatened when their woman 'betters themselves' because of HIS insecurities. It really has nothing to do with her.
Bottom line: Your woman ends up being a reflection of you. The moment you doubt yourself, youre fucked. Only YOU can ultimately fuck it up, directly or indirectly....so...
DON'T FUCK IT UP. 
FINISH HOW YOU START. 
This sounds very familiar ^5 Brother
^5 indeed.
(sits, reads and silently nods yes to which is stated.) the reasons why your Core should be solid and not built on bullshit. the average Male can't stand to see a woman rise socially or financially above him. I can handle this and be even more Happy knowing that I am what keeps her centered or anchored if you will. she knows this and also knows how far in the wind she will blow if she thinks her notoriety will guide her. as Kidd put it
She's never had a man not only put her in her place...but also then explain to her why he HAS to and how it will ultimately benefit HER...THAT is why she sticks around. As long as I don't stop being an asshole when warranted, I don't foresee any future issues.
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