Natural Freedom

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yU4nKdNNFe4

when he says inner game he means your inner beliefs. This does not mean that you have to always be aware of what you are thinking But if you do the inner core work at home- it will reflect when you go out. Esp. if you do visualizations...

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Thoughts don't actually have that much power, time is much better spent on self-discovery, rather than self improvement.

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

That rings true to me now, but I keep digging deeper and finding even more shit, it's seemingly bottomless.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

I think self-disvoery leads to indifference just as self-improvement does. In my point of view, self-disovery makes you see that you are complete, that you don't need women or money to be a happy and confident person. Its becoming "your own best friend".

Self-improvement is giving yourself all the stuff you want (in your mind) and as soon as you really think you have that stuff you see that happiness is not a matter of things from the outside but a matter of your own relationship to yourself.

But best thing I guess is doing both.

Very well put. It resonates with my experience.

Self-discovery, made me see I need nothing form outside. And achieving and improving showed me, that getting something didn't make me more peacefull/happy as before.

So both paths, made me more indifferent towards outside stimulus.

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There is no individual doer of any action or deed. Yet deeds are done and actions happen.

Agree w/Brent, and

I like the idea that there is no key to happiness
but the happiness is the key to everything else.

Just remember to use the key.

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