Natural Freedom

Hey guys, I just had a very interesting conversation with a nice girl at the uni. today. And this topic came up. This is not the first time I hear something like this from a women, did you guys ever hear this too?

This woman (and a few other women in the past) told me that they don't have women friends and only guy friends. When I ask them why I always get the same answers such as:

Women stab each other in the back
women always get jealous
women can't be trusted
women try to steal other women's boyfriends.

Now of coruse that there are guys who also do these kind of things but I never met a guy who doesn't have buddies and only women friends (by choice).
very interesting...

oh and I forgot to mention that I also talked to a few women who do have women friends but still told me the same things.

I don't want to generalize here cause a lot or even most women do have women friends but I'm starting to wonder if generaly speaking: women really support and trust each other or not.
They like to cry to each other, hug and kiss each other and talk for hours about their emotions and problems. But do they really trust each other?
Hmmm

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Lately I like to keep things plain and simple and not look into it too much. I notice everywhere I go there is drama. But girls in particular seem to love drama. Guys stir up drama too, but girls seem to thrive on it.

Don't worry about it too much Sniper. Let the girls be crazy as much as they want, it doesn't affect you. It would be great if everyone could just get along, but sadly a lot of girls aren't even that mature.
I bet if you talked to their friends, they would say the same thing about them. When it comes to drama I don't get involved. I don't try to avoid situations, but I just let them play out around me like a reality tv show lol.

yea you are right freespirit422,

isn't it funny though (as David X said): that we are being taught that women are good and guys are evil: 'black and white'.

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Are you kidding that's very common in America that ain't nothing new, Like everybody has been saying on here women are competitive do you know why they dress up the way they do in clubs and bars I'll give you a hint its not to attract a man I even had a girl tell me this very thing I forgot who told me about it though but I remember that insight very well....

Knowing the kidd and his journey in life I'm pretty sure he already knows what I'm talking about that is if I made it clear enough for you guys to understand anyway let me know what you come up with shay and I'll give you my answer I'm pretty sure The Modern Libertine, Peregrinus, and Vegano already know as well and Mannja as well but anyway you have three chances that is if nobody else can figure it out or says anything have fun with this little quiz

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~There's weakness in the hearts of all humans are you afraid to acknowledge yours... ~
Mr. Todo

So true. I used to try to put myself above women, but all you really have to do is watch for the bullshit and realize if a girl is worth it or not. It's not just women, its people in general. If I give respect to people, I expect it back. Simple as that. It's a simple concept but 90% of guys out there lose respect for themselves once they are confronted with a pair of tits.

THIS.

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Do you realize that she was in a way talking about herself as well?

Way of a Natural, you gotta construct your sentences in paragraphs with commas and periods dude, it's hard to read your stuff otherwise.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

yea, sad but true.
Guys won't let guys walk all over them but when a woman comes - the rules suddently change. can you beleive this shit?
(rhetorical question)

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Nice posts

Let them provoke some thoughts in you

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great posts guys,

Way of a Natural:
I guess you mean that they are competitive and so they want to see who gets the most attention.....

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Ding Ding Ding Ding Ding Ding Bingo Shay........

Hit the nail on the head women dress up for other women to compete against each other and see who can get more attention from men, this validates to them they the fliest sexiest bitch around, just like men women have egos as well that need fulfilling from time to time

And to Fullmetal I'll do my best I just have such complex thinking and memory lapses that I want to get it out before I forget it.......

I live a fast paced life but I'll do my best to slow it down and make sure its clarified for everyone to understand or basically I would've put it all down for nothing. I can't be having that now

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~There's weakness in the hearts of all humans are you afraid to acknowledge yours... ~
Mr. Todo

that is why so many women dress like fucking sex objects and then they go home alone or 'shoot down' every man that tries to talk to them. It's not exacly like Rion said:
that they have this pressure from the social matrix to dress and act like this- they just want an attention and some ego boost.

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Yup its never been about attracting a man I hope that helps......

Now don't get me wrong not all of them are like this just the majority

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~There's weakness in the hearts of all humans are you afraid to acknowledge yours... ~
Mr. Todo

I just noticed something or maybe this is the first time it happened but a group of blondes were checking me out at the bus stop and when I rocked up to check the time they straightened themselves up and stopped talking for a minute with their eyes fixed on me, that shit felt good!.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."