(One of my friend girls told me this).
...and there lies the problem.
Enjoy your steak...Cypher surely did.
It's ultimately all in the delivery and initial meeting. If you set the tone correctly, and she is jocking you tough enough, then believe me she'll call...she may even call the same day. However, as you have alluded to, sometimes you may HAVE to call first because they impose societies rules upon you. In those cases (as with my ex), if you feel like it is worth it, you go along and steal the ball later.
Bottom line: You have to respect whoever moves first. If I say, 'I look forward to hearing from you.' and I leave without a complaint from her, then it is implies that she is going to call me. That's not standoff that's common sense. If she takes the initiative before I do and says, 'Call me sometime tomorrow', I'm not going to stand there and retort with, 'Uh no...you can call ME tomorrow'...I will respect that she beat me to it and call first.
Everything eventually works it's way out.
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