hey guys, I always like to look at things from a philosophical point of view and this was a part of my growing process (and I'm sure a lot of guys will find that it was a part of their process as well). By understanding this you might have an idea of why and how things work in the realm of women, seduction and other areas of life. But first watch this short video (a small
scene from starwars 6):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qjpx8YPeHds
now as you can see Luke had to feel the anger (which has made him powerful) and that's how he was able to beat Darth Vader (strong anger is an analogy to the dark side). After that he retured to the good and compassion side in him (the force) And that's how he saved Darth Vader (his father) and defeated Darth Sidious.
Now when we talk about seduction & women (in this case, but it could be applied to other areas as well): I think that almost everyone will experience a few stages in the whole process:
stage 1) women are nice, sweet and good. I have love and compassion for them.
(this is due mostly to social conditioning)
stage 2) A lot of women are not good, but maybe they are good and I just don't get it\them -I'm the problem.
(again: this is due mostly to social conditioning and the pick up artists community - that most of it is based on the fact that women are fine and you are the problem).
stage 3) A lot of women are not good and it's not because of me or because I don't get them (I'm not the problem). Now I feel angry, I'll use this anger to grab my balls back, be a man and put bitchy women in their place.
as far as seuction goes: I'll look for teachers who have the balls to tell the truth and don't put women on a pedistal, give their power away or act as if men are the problem.
stage 4) no more anger. I'll try to be good and compassionate towards all women however if a woman acts bad- I have no problem putting her in her place (in a polite way). And I can put women in their place in a polite way without getting angry or letting her behavior affect me or my state.
Now I admit, I'm still working on myself to be in stage 4- I'm not completely there yet.
It takes work and effort and it's not easy. But with more time and work I beleive I'll get there....
thoughts?