Before you try to tell someone to get over it, you need to know what it's actually like. And then you need to not tell them to get over it.

TRIGGER WARNING: At 3:17, a woman describes an assault on a subway. You really should hear what she says so you can learn how horrific this is for many women on a daily basis.

Irrelevant...because we take the time to discern which women would actually welcome our company and conversation.

Very curios to know what members think,

"If you are not willing to stick by your own rules
and your boundaries, you cannot claim that someone
took advantage of you."

Irrelevant...because we take the time to discern which women would actually welcome our company and conversation.

Indeed. But why do I get the feeling if they knew we only focused on women who are choosing they would still say it's wrong?

I know the way I dress is kinda provocative, but

Irrelevant...because we take the time to discern which women would actually welcome our company and conversation.

This is not something I even concern myself with. Fucks given: ZERO.

I know the way I dress is kinda provocative, but it doesn't mean I should have to deal with it.

So where is the hidden camera stuff the article headline describes?

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This talk has recently come up in my life with a female friend. She had good points: it's not okay to be harassed or 'cat-called'; it's not okay to be groped or to have your physical space violated by a stranger.

I agree with her on those, but I also thought...are men to blame?

ignore everything after the 'but', that is one of my golden rules.

Irrelevant...because we take the time to discern which women would actually welcome our company and conversation.

This is not something I even concern myself with. Fucks given: ZERO.

I only see submissive men who sacrifice their self-respect and dignity by putting women on pedestals. They are making an ass of themselves by literally worshipping the grounds they walk on. This is self-humiliation, neither harassment nor assault.

They're only offended by getting attention from men they are not interested in which according to them falls under the harrassment category.

ignore everything after the 'but', that is one of my golden rules.

If someone says a sentence to me with the word 'but' in it, I throw away everything they said after that point as it is irrelevant.

I thought it was anything before the "but", grinus?

Have a listen, in your own life.

Then make up your own mind.

I thought it was anything before the "but", grinus?

He is handsome, a great guy, financially independent, kind, a sex machine, but I don't know, something doesn't...

I know the way I dress is kinda provocative, but it doesn't mean I should have to deal with it.