Natural Freedom

I discussed this yesterday with a couple friends.

In pornography, women are the main attraction, the object of desire, and I've had this idea for a long time that women were being exploited in this business, which may be true to some extent.

But I've come to realize the irony of that is men are actually the pieces of meat in this business, when people watch it do they really focus on the guy? no, they're only concerned with what he pounds the star of the show with, it doesn't matter what he looks like, as long as it pounds and squirts and hits it at a camera angle that does it for you when you partake in what I call 'goddess worship'.

They're paid less than the women and they have to work harder (pun intended), a woman who gets too old can move on to do 'mature' films whilst the guy, if his plumping doesn't work it's over.

Even moreso than the women are seen as a hot body and multiple orifices, the man is only good for his johnson not so much his sexual prowess, replace the man with a vibrator and there really wouldn't be much of a difference.

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Welcome to the real world create.

What you see in it is TOTALLY artificial.

The men in it are looks wise there more for the men viewing than the women, to further the betaisation of the viewers.

The women get far more money than the men. Most of the men seem to start off doing gay films to get money and get themselves known before moving into the straight stuff.

regarding your johnson comment, need I mention 'John Holmes' - LOL! (He realised this early on, according to interviews and it ended up eating him up from inside mentally)

If anything it exploits men not women. I am not saying some of the women are not exploited, but the male performers and viewers are exploited far far more.

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Ever thought of the psychological effects of constantly watching men pound (no other way to put it really) women in front of you while not getting any yourself? - That is what the viewers are subjecting themselves to, they are essentially masturbating to someone else fucking a woman in front of them, think about the effect that has on them. If anything watching solo porn (woman self pleasuring) or even lesbian women should be less psychologically damaging.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

Yeah for sure I've been thinking about it for awhile now, this is why I was able to stop for good, when I realized what it was doing to me, in a way it was telling myself I don't deserve sex.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

you make good points create and peregrinus. I never thought about it this way....

I'm sure no woman really enjoys being a porn star. I mean a woman does not wake up in the morning and says: hey I want to be a porn star. But it does exploit men more than women since the men who are watching porn usually end up not getting laid while women (within the social matrix) don't have to go out of their way if the want to have sex. They are the stimulus in the social matrix and if they are 'hot' they have the power to chose who to sleep with cause so many men are drooling all over them....

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"