...then why is this not in the comedy section?
...and what value, exactly? This looks like pure Hooey indoctrination to me.
It repeated some points of this forum (that I listed on my second post), and something that I tend to forget :
How Women Build Relationships
For women, relationship-building is generally a part of every activity with everyone. Women build relationships by freely talking about their daily trivia and troubles. "I will tell you about my life and troubles, and you may tell me about yours so that we can be really close." This unconsciously reassures them they have a good relationship, are protected, safe, and will survive.
When a woman tries to build a relationship with a man by talking about her personal life and problems, men don't understand what is happening. Men hear women's problems as a request for help, so men respond with solutions to the women's problems. When a man offers his recommended solution, the woman often feels as if he is trying to diminish her problem or cut her off. Women do not see a relationship developing with the man who wants to "fix her problems." Men don't understand women building relationships with daily trivia and women don't understand men building status by taking action to fix things. Women don't want to be fixed! That makes them feel like they are broken or defective. They want to be heard and form a close relationship!
It triggered many memories of the fact that every time my mother (and roomares) complain, but doesn't really do something, just complaining. (it was not deeply ingrained in me apparently that they just like 'yapping', but it's now.)
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