Hey Kidd and Grinus,
after reading The Kidd's last story,
something hit me on a more deep level, I want to make sure I got it right so this question is more for clarification...
When we talked about the value theory (in the 'treasure chest') we said that a woman is only with you for your value and men are only with women for their value. But we also said that generally:
women get more value from the relationship than the man.
So let me see if I got this right (generally speaking):
After you got the girl and let's say you even married her-
the man still has more value to give in the relatioship. One of the main reasons is:
since women are more emotional they require more 'maintenance' which is a lot of energy (you need to be pimp tight, have control over the relationship, lead and etc...). If you don't focus and remember who you are and what you want- the woman might leave you OR control you OR manipulate you.
Us men on the other hand: we are not so hard to please. All we want (generally speaking) is good food, sex and to be left alone to do the things that we love (such as playing video games, having a drink with our friends or whatever else someone likes to do...).
generally speaking: we don't need a lot of 'maintenance' from the woman, we just need a lot of space (not woman spaceships...
) (the woman doesn't have to be pimp tight, have control over the relationship, lead and etc...- which is a lot of energy. And again- generally speaking: most men are not out to leave OR control OR manipulate the woman as long as they are getting good food, sex and the woman let's them have their space).
So that is why generally speaking: Women get more value from the relationship or marriage?
, still doin it wrong I see 
I respectfully disagree.
, it's ok if you do.